| Being the wife of someone serving in the
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| | relationships among the people who will
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| armed forces puts a woman in a unique
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| | be serving under and with your husband.
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| position. Though she and the children are
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| | You will get the participation from
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| not signed up to serve Uncle Sam, in many
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| | others once they see that you are serious
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| ways they are as much a part of the
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| | about getting to know them.
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| military as is their spouse.
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| | If you are worried about learning the
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| When your husband is going to be in a
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| | ropes, make it a point to spend time with
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| position where he is going to be
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| | your husband's senior officer's wife.
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| commanding men, the pressure on the
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| | Usually she has been a service wife for
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| family and especially the wife may be
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| | many years and you can benefit greatly
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| great. There are many women who once
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| | from her advice and experience.
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| their husbands are wearing the stars and
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| | In order to build camaraderie, have a
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| bars think they are the one that should
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| | get-together on a monthly basis and
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| have the soldiers snapping to it. Most
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| | invite the other commanders as well as
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| women of this type are not particularly
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| | the higher ranked officers. Try to have
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| well liked by the other wives and it can
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| | the other couples over for an informal
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| contribute to a negative perception of
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| | dinner or a cocktail party at your home.
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| the husband as well.
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| | Use the Other Wives to your Advantage
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| It is wise to be prepared when your
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| | Though you want the other wives to think
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| husband will be rising in the ranks. It
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| | you have it all together and nothing can
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| is important to remember that both your
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| | faze you, you will be giving them a false
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| husband and you will often feel as if you
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| | impression of you. Let the wives of your
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| were being examined under a microscope
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| | husband's men know that you too need help
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| and in a sense you are. The higher the
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| | and if you all work together as a team
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| command your spouse is offered the more
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| | you can get any job put before you done.
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| scrutiny will be focused on you and the
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| | Share in the responsibilities and show
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| family.
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| | them your willingness to work hard and
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| You want to help your husband lead
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| | they will be more than happy to do their
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| effectively and you can be an asset to
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| | part.
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| him by following a few simple steps;
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| | Some wives will be new to the base and
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| Being the wife of a commanding officer
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| | others will be preparing to leave. You
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| can add more social responsibilities to
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| | can be sure you are there for the wives
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| your calendar. Only do what you feel you
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| | in the same way your husband is there for
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| can do best and allot what you can't to
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| | his men. As a military spouse you have
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| others. You shouldn't expect yourself to
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| | unique responsibilities and there are
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| be able to take care of everything.
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| | high expectations of the wife of the
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| Do your best to create strong
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| | commanding officer.
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