| At least with me once I found out who my biological | | | | when. What terrified them even more was, not |
| parents were it became more difficult before it got | | | | knowing what my reaction would be.This is a key |
| easier. Still to this day it was the right decision on my | | | | concern of parents today day. What will my child do? |
| part and my adopted parents.What made it more | | | | Will they leave or stay? Will they love us still? All |
| challenging was that my biological mother and | | | | kinds of emotions can and will go through the minds. |
| adopted mother are sisters. For twelve years my | | | | Are they still glad they told me? Yes they are. You |
| mother who I thought was my aunt, and my | | | | see, a house can not be built without its foundation. |
| adopted mother played opposite rolls. What was | | | | No matter how hard it may be to get out of the |
| even weirder was my four cousins were really my | | | | ground, it must be built. Until I found my foundation, |
| half brothers and sisters. Am I still glad? Yes. Did I | | | | my house with my adopted parents could not be |
| have a right to know this? You bet. Was it easy for | | | | built.Parents, your decision is not all about you.Did I |
| everyone involved? No way!From the beginning of | | | | develop a relationship with my siblings? Yes I did. Did |
| my life; my biological mother and siblings and adopted | | | | I have one with my biological mother? Yes!Seventeen |
| parents for that matter new there would come a | | | | years later I found my real father with the help of |
| day I would want to know. They also new that I had | | | | my adopted mother!Greg Ryan is a high profile |
| every right to know. They just did not know how or | | | | fitness expert and best selling author eight books. |