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Preparing For the Holidays: Ho Ho Ho... or Bah Humbug!

Some of my clients dread the holiday redeemable for an activity you can do
season because it often represents together -- can be very meaningful. Among
stress, pressure, expectations, guilt, the most prized gifts I've ever received
disappointment, pain, loneliness, have been homemade cards with a heartfelt
exhaustion... and the list goes on.This note written inside. Value goes far
is a choice. We choose who we spend time beyond the cost of the gift.A great
with. We choose what activities we say resource for homemade gift ideas is a
yes and no to. We choose where we go. book called The Perfect Mix. It contains
Your holiday season can be as simple or creative edible gift ideas, including
as elaborate as you choose to make it, wrapping suggestions and tag
and it can be a lot of fun if you plan instructions, along with a source guide
accordingly.Take some time this week to for supplies. The book offers more than
think about what's most important to you 90 recipes for soups, breads, muffins,
this season, and then do a little cookies, and other gifts. The gifts I've
planning. Here are some suggestions to created from this book have been very
help.==> Create a list of holiday rituals well received and appreciated.Instead of
that are important to you.Seek your exchanging gifts with friends, consider
family's input on holiday decisions. Ask having a holiday or post-holiday party
family members what they liked and with them.Avoid parking hassles, gridlock
disliked about last year's holidays. traffic around the malls, and long lines
Write down the most important elements at the register by shopping online and
and activities you wish to include this through catalogs. A number of retail
year, and plan to make it happen.Keeping stores now offer merchandise online, as
time-consuming and irrelevant traditions well. If you are purchasing a gift that
or rituals "just because we've always needs to be mailed, you can arrange to
done it that way" can increase stress. have it sent directly to the recipient,
Keep only those traditions that have thus avoiding the extra steps of
meaning to you, or create some new wrapping, labeling, and mailing the
ones.Give yourself permission to be in gift.Spread out your purchase of gifts
the moment and enjoy the smells, sounds, over the weeks of November and early
feel, and tastes that are unique to this December. It's easier on the budget, and
season of the year.==> Make a list of less stressful than waiting until the
those you want to spend time with during last minute.Wrapping gifts can take a lot
the holidays.Who nourishes you? Who are of time. Instead of wrapping all of them,
the family members, friends, and use a gift bag with a nice bow tied at
colleagues you enjoy being with?Do you the top, or use a decorated gift
want to do any entertaining? If so, when box.Consider giving an alternative gift
and with whom? Plan ahead and ask for to a friend or loved one by giving to a
help if you want it. True friends and charity in their name. One of my favorite
loved ones will not care how many hours charities is Heifer Project
you slaved over the stove. Spending time International. Through living gifts of
with you is what they'll cherish most. animals, HPI is helping families
You don't have to be Martha Stewart to worldwide to become self-reliant. You can
throw a great party!Are you invited to buy an animal that can change the life of
holiday parties that you really don't a hungry family and at the same time
want to go to, but you've gone in the honor family and friends. Visit HPI's
past because you should? Be at choice -- "gift catalog" at Spread the holiday
don't play the victim! This is not about cheer with those in need.Volunteer to
whom you should see, but rather whom you serve a holiday meal to the homeless,
choose to spend time with.==> Mail your work in a soup kitchen, or work at a food
greeting cards, holiday letters, and bank.Adopt a family for the holidays and
packages early.Some time-saving provide them with gifts or holiday foods.
tips:Write a short holiday letter that Many churches and non-profit
covers the highlights; copy it on holiday organizations can match you with a needy
paper and add a note at the end to family.Look for a Giving Tree in your
personalize it. Make a collage of local retail stores. The tree is filled
pictures to photocopy on the back side of with cards that list a specific gift
the letter.Use self-adhesive return desired by someone in need. You select a
labels. These labels are inexpensive and card off the tree, purchase the suggested
often come with festive holiday designs. gift listed on the card, and return the
One great online source for these is gift to the tree with the card attached.
Walter Drake at Colorful Images is The store wraps the gift and delivers it
another source. They can be reached at to the intended recipient.The end of the
800-458-7999.If you have your addresses tax year is a great time to review your
on a computerized database, consider budget and consider a year-end gift to
printing out your mailing list on clear your favorite charities. This can
address labels. Years ago, an old college represent a significant tax deduction if
friend commented that she thought it was you itemize, while doing great things
tacky to use address labels on holiday locally and globally.==> Use your
cards and letters. I told her that my calendar.Now that you're clear about your
choice was to either use labels or not intentions, calendar them in. Writing
mail our annual holiday letter to the 250 them down for follow-up on a specific
people on our list. Now that she has a date will help you to remember to do it
young family, I've noticed she has and will keep things from falling to the
started using address labels, too!E-mail last minute. Here is a list of activities
a holiday letter to those with whom you you can pencil in on your
correspond electronically. You can easily calendar:Schedule family meeting to
personalize this for each recipient. discuss plans and intentions for the
Attach color photos highlighting the past holiday seasonMake airline, hotel, and
year. Another alternative is to create a rental car arrangements (if traveling out
holiday web page, and include the link to of town for the holidays)-- ASAP!Holiday
it in a personalized e-mail message.Mail decorating (indoor, outdoor, office,
packages early to avoid longer lines at etc.)Finalize holiday entertainment plan
the post office and ensure they will and guest listMail invitations or call to
arrive in time. Or, better yet, sign up invite others to events you have
with and avoid the lines altogether. You plannedMeal planning and preparation (can
can mail large packages without standing some cooking be done ahead of time and
in any lines -- as long as you have an frozen?)Prepare gift listHoliday gift
accurate way to weigh them before you making/holiday bakingGift selection &
purchase postage online.==> Thoughtfully purchaseGift wrappingPrepare mailing list
plan your gift-giving.Give from the or database for holiday cards/letters
heart... not out of obligation. Decide e-mailsPrepare holiday cards, letters,
whom you choose to give to and make a e-mails, WebsiteMail cards, letters,
list. This will help you avoid packagesGather information about
overspending through impulse buying.If volunteer opportunities and calendar in
you think back to the most cherished activities you choose to doFinalize
gifts you have received, they are often charitable giving plan for 2000Happy
homemade or from the heart. A gift of holiday organizing!
time -- such as a gift certificate




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