| There are some facts about adoption that,
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| | how she really couldn't manage it, didn't
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| really, you cannot dispute unless you are
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| | want to parent, had a great agency. I
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| just trying to purposely to stay ignorant
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| | don't need to know about how sure she
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| regarding the facts of infant adoption in
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| | was, or her reasons for giving you her
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| this country.
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| | child. And I don't buy it when you tell
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| Adoption is, in its perfect form, suppose
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| | me that she is just fine...really, even
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| to be about finding homes for children
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| | if she is. Let me talk to her in 18 years
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| that need them, not about finding
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| | when the taste of the Kool-Aid gets all
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| children for parents that want them.
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| | stale and metallic, without you there so
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| That's the perfect ideal, for the perfect
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| | she could speak freely. Then I might
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| world, someplace we all know we do not
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| | believe it, but I don't even need to do
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| live in. What seems to be missing are
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| | that. It's not about proving that you are
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| some very important adoption facts. That
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| | horrible person, less of a parent, or a
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| doesn't mean statistics like how many
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| | baby stealing troll. Really, I don't care
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| children are adopted each year, or
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| | all that much about what was already
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| examples of great gifts for an adopted
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| | DONE. It's over, that's the past and none
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| baby, or even simple logistics such as
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| | of us can change it anyway.
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| where to find an adoption agency in Va.
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| | IF YOU GAVE YOUR BABY TO ADOPTION and
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| I'm talking about the pull your head out
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| | you're all content and peaceful and still
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| of the sand, stop listening to
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| | think you made a great choice for your
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| heart-warning stories on Oprah, and
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| | baby, and you have no regrets about
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| acknowledge some cold hard, adoption
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| | adoption...OK. I'm glad for you, I really
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| facts:
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| | am. I am happy that you escaped the
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| THERE IS NOTHING INHERENTLY WRONG ABOUT
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| | bullet. I can only hope that your child
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| WANTING TO BE A PARENT, BUT IT CAN BECOME
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| | is in complete agreement with you when
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| WRONG DEPENDING ON HOW YOU GO ABOUT
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| | they can speak for themselves. And if
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| BECOMING A PARENT. I will never judge
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| | that is not the case, of you ever feel
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| anyone for wanting to have a child. I
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| | that "hmmm...this is not what I expected,
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| would not think less of anyone or negate
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| | this is a bit more than I was warned
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| their parenting if they became parents
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| | about" or if that stale and metallic
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| though adoption. In fact, despite my
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| | taste gets to heavy on your tongue, then
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| disgust at the system, there are many
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| | I am here for you still. I know that deal
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| parents through adoption who I like as
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| | all too well. And if you are super pissed
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| people, trust as friends, work with to
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| | off and angry and hate adoption with
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| achieve mutual goals. I would even go so
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| | every breath of your being, well I get
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| far as to say that I am understanding
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| | that too and ever stance of conflicting
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| when I hear someone spout off some
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| | emotions in between.
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| absolute blatantly ignorant statement; I
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| | IF YOU ARE ADOPTED and it is all peachy
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| shrug and think that many of the times
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| | for you…..great!! You have only one
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| the perspective adoptive parents haven't
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| | mother and father, you have four, and you
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| even had a clue.
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| | have six, ok. I cannot tell you how to
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| It's not like they were trying to be
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| | make your heart beat. Your feelings are
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| cruel or uncaring. I know that. They were
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| | not about me, though I will listen and
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| just doing what the industry and
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| | learn from you so I can understand my son
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| professionals told them to do, what was
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| | more, but really the only one who I need
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| "acceptable practices". I blame a system
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| | to care about as far as the ultimate
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| that hides the real hard truths from all
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| | decree of my motherhood is my kids. If
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| the parties involved. It is only
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| | you want to be angry, I say that you are
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| afterwards, when we can come together,
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| | entitled to your feelings. If you feel
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| usually then, when the real truths are
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| | abandoned or rejected, all I can do is
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| exposed and fears disassembled, that the
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| | hear you and try to help you understand
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| "other" side becomes real people with
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| | what your own mom might be thinking or
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| real feelings, and do many of us realize
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| | have felt, but even then..I can't really
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| that we played a part in this misuse of
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| | speak for her, unless I do know her.
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| an emotional crisis.
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| | The past is the past and we can really do
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| I KNOW THAT MANY ADOPTIVE PARENTS MIGHT
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| | nothing to change it. We can speak of it,
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| RESIST REALLY LOOKING DEEP INTO THE WAY
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| | we can document it, we can be truthful
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| THEIR CHILDREN'S ADOPTIONS WERE HANDLED.
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| | about it. That is all I ask: that you be
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| They might fight to look into their
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| | truthful, to me, to the public, to
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| earlier thoughts and often stereotypes.
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| | yourself, to your children's other
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| They could, understandably, desire to
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| | parents, to your kids. Just speak the
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| remain ignorant of the losses involved in
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| | truth, even if it is hard, even if it
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| their path to parenthood. They might
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| | makes you uncomfortable, even if it hurts
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| begin to think now, with regret, about
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| | you inside and makes you question
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| some of the practices of their lawyers
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| | yourself. No need to explain or defend
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| and other professionals that they
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| | this stuff to anyone, especially of you
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| trusted. I'm not judging that. I know
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| | really are still trying to explain or
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| that's how it works.
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| | defend this stuff to yourself. That is
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| I think it works that way for many
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| | your journey. I got mine.
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| parents who surrender as well. Many do
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| | Even if your adoption was perfect, even
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| not want to look at it deeply and fully.
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| | if it was the most ethical thing on the
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| It really can hurt emotionally, in a way
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| | face of this earth, even if you saved
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| that is completely indescribable and
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| | your child from certain death; it doesn't
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| words could never do justice. Often, by
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| | matter to me. If you are somehow immune
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| the time we do allow ourselves to feel
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| | from being part of the problem, are you
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| deeply regarding the relinquishment of
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| | willing to be part of the solution?
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| our children, we have years invested in
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| | I AM STILL GOING TO SAY THINGS THAT MAKE
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| self denial. Because it cannot ever be
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| | YOU UNCOMFORTABLE ABOUT ADOPTION. I still
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| undone and all we can do is live though
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| | want you to think, I want you to know
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| the time, mothers and fathers who
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| | that it goes beyond your personal
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| relinquish their child to adoption have a
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| | experience, it goes beyond mine. I want
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| great resistiance as well and often,
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| | you to behold such truths to be self
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| anger, at seeing adoption in a real
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| | evident, that adoption as an industry has
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| light. This is especially true for newer
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| | a long way to go before it reaches that
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| first mothers who still must function at
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| | perfect ideal that we all strive for. I
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| a level for survival as they work through
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| | want you to care about more than just you
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| their grief.
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| | and your child, but the child of that
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| The very same can be said for the
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| | poor woman who looks like she just needs
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| adoptee, especially for the ones who
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| | a break with decent day care. Or care
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| insist that they "never think about that
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| | about that really pissed off angry man
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| I am adopted". From some of the most
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| | who keeps getting a bad deal at work and
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| honest and real, courageous and brilliant
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| | can't get insurance for his family to be
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| adopted persons I have known; I have had
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| | or gets crooked out of his parental
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| the honor to learn that many of the
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| | rights because an industry is running him
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| feelings that come from adoption do not
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| | down. Care about the young girl down the
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| always invoke feelings of gratitude, or
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| | block who looks like a kid pushing a doll
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| contentment, but loss and primal
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| | in a stroller to school every day with a
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| rejection, as well as confusion, anger,
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| | loaded back pack of books, don't judge
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| many unanswered questions and often
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| | her, or him, but remember, we all could
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| unsatisfactory love.
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| | have been in those shoes. Yes, you; if
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| What it comes down to, bottom line; even
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| | the stars have aligned differently, if
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| if an adoptive parent technically
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| | life handed you different cards. I
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| participated in some questionable actions
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| | want you to stop and think about what it
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| in the past, I don't care. I don't care
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| | means for a mother, never mind if she is
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| if a posse of card carrying content
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| | a young mother or a poor mother, as
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| birthmothers really thinks relinquishing
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| | neither can measure love; what it might
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| adoption was the best thing ever for both
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| | feel for a mother to lose a life with her
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| them and their babies. I don't care
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| | own child. I want you to stop and really
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| about how thankful you are that you were
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| | think of what you are asking her to do by
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| adopted. It's not about you, really,
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| | relinquishing her baby. How do you feel
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| but it is. It's not the past I am
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| | when you hear of a missing child
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| concerned about, it's the future. It's
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| | abducted? What emotions do you find OK
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| not how you got here, but what you are
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| | for a mother to feel at that time? Do you
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| willing to do now. Can you face the cold,
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| | sympathize with a mother when you hear
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| hard facts?
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| | about a tragic accidental death of her
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| ******
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| | baby? And then explain to yourself what
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| ADOPTION IS A 3 BILLION DOLLAR PLUS
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| | makes one mother's grief over the loss of
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| INDUSTRY, probably more like double that.
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| | a child more worthy of our understanding
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| This is a proven fact. An industry
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| | than another mother's loss because
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| analysis of Fertility Clinics and
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| | adoption was involved?
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| Adoption Services by Market Data
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| | I want people to realize that even if, on
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| Enterprises of Tampa, FL, has placed a
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| | the short term, it seems much more
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| $1.4 billion value on adoption services
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| | logical and sensible for the too young,
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| in the US back in '98 or '99. No other
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| | or too challenged to give their unplanned
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| government or private agency has bothered
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| | children to those that have planned,
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| since then. With a projected annual
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| | waited and prayed to be parents; that
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| growth rate of 11.5% to 2004, this makes
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| | infant surrender is sentencing both
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| adoption the largest unregulated industry
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| | mother, child and extended family to a
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| in the US. Do the math; even if we
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| | life long altercation, often with
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| follow those conservative projections,
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| | unpleasant results. What is exactly a
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| because the market has exploded since
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| | few years of social support, non
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| this last study was done making 11.5% is
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| | judgment, and maybe assisted day care and
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| very mild of a percentage, we have a
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| | housing compared to a life time of
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| number that is in excess of 3 billion
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| | unnatural grief? A life time of loss or a
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| dollars by the end of 2007.
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| | few lean years and maybe some tax aided
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| Let's all repeat: NO REGULATIONS PLUS
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| | support? What is the greater evil? Trauma
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| LARGE SUMS OF MONEY EQUALS CLIMATE FOR
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| | for life or public assistance?
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| CORRUPTION. That, folks, is human nature.
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| | I want you to think about the world we
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| ADOPTION LAWS ON THIS COUNTRY ARE
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| | allow to happen for our children and
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| ANTIQUATED AND BASED ON CHILD DEVELOPMENT
| |
| | their children; is it good enough? Would
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| AND HUMAN NATURE BELIEFS THAT WE KNOW TO
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| | you want your daughter to have a story
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| BE WRONG. The amount of knowledge that we
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| | like mine, or Nic, or Suz? Do you want to
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| have has changed, but the legislation has
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| | have a universe, a climate in this
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| not been updated. Current changes have
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| | country where the government spends money
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| been made to benefit the adoption
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| | on known programs that fail, like
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| professionals and the industry in general
| |
| | abstinence only policies, that spends tax
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| because they have the money to pay for
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| | dollars on studies to find out who to
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| the lobbyists and the influence. The
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| | make adoption appealing so that they can
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| National Council for Adoption, a lobby
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| | convince women to relinquish, that
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| group with a deceiving name and even more
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| | supports and promotes maternity homes
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| disturbing game, is paid for by the
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| | like Gladney for political favors, that
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| agencies, pro-life groups, and federal
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| | teaches professionals downright lies such
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| tax funds and grants to promote adoption.
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| | as the infant adoption awareness
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| They like to separate families not
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| | training, that allows corrupt influences
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| protected by money or the Godly union of
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| | in your children's schools like
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| marriage in favor for a legally married
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| | Stephanie Bennett , that has no
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| heterosexual couples. Consent times, like
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| | regulations and no oversight and makes
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| in California and Pennsylvania, have been
| |
| | your daughters and sons venerable to an
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| reduced, because lawyers and agencies
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| | industry that is above and beyond
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| want it and they are the ones speaking
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| | reproach.
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| out to the politicians. It makes
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| | It's not about what you did; it is about
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| adoptions and the profits go though the
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| | what you can do now.
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| system quicker.
| |
| | Are you an adoptive parent, and do I make
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| MANY, MANY MOTHERS DID INDEED LOSE THEIR
| |
| | you angry? Do you care that you got what
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| CHILDREN TO ADOPTION AND SUFFER WHAT CAN
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| | you wanted? Is that all adoption is to
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| ONLY BE DESCRIBED AS A REAL DIAGNOIS OF
| |
| | you, was to you, a way to be a parent and
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| "BIRTHMOTHER GREIF". Whether they were
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| | now it is done? Then why are you here?
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| downright forced and given no choice, or
| |
| | Why bother; go live your happy life.
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| if they were made to believe they had a
| |
| | DO YOU CARE ABOUT BEING THE BEST PARENT
|
| choice, but still felt they had no other
| |
| | FOR YOU CHILD? Which means that adoptive
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| options, or whether they felt they had
| |
| | or original parent; you need to listen to
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| options, but were not really given the
| |
| | the adoptees and what they have to tell
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| accurate information regarding long term
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| | us about our own children. It means
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| ramifications of relinquishment for them
| |
| | making this world, this society, a better
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| and for their child. These are women who
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| | place where ALL understand and
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| are and could have been good parents.
| |
| | acknowledge what the adoptees tell us of
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| These children were in no danger of being
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| | their feelings so they do not feel they
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| bump around in foster care for years. No
| |
| | have to perform or lie or keep quiet at
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| threat of abuse. If it was not for the
| |
| | their own expense to protect those they
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| happy adoption seduction dance of
| |
| | love. So they do not feel alone and
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| coercion, these families would just be.
| |
| | confused.
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| They would have parented. Maybe they
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| | Think of your own children facing an
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| would have had a few first years of lean
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| | unplanned pregnancy. Imagine being
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| times, maybe it would have been hard, but
| |
| | separated from one of your kids. Could
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| look at us now? Suz, Jenna, PoorStatue,
| |
| | you do it? Do you want anyone to feel the
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| Barb for example; all hard working,
| |
| | pain and grief of these adoption losses?
|
| goal minded, strong willed ladies. I
| |
| | Do you care about making some real
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| doubt any of us would have sunk to child
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| | changes in adoption practices and beliefs
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| beating, crystal meth, stripping, and
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| | so that things are better for the next
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| getting beaten by our men just because we
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| | generations to come, our children? Can
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| had a baby in tow. In fact, I dare to say
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| | you put your money and your actions where
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| that we would be more apt not to, because
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| | your mouth is? Yes? Then come on, let's
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| of the need to love and provide for our
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| | go. We have work to do.
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| kids.
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| | YOU CAN HAVE THE GREATEST ADOPTION
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| THERE IS A HUGE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN CHILD
| |
| | EXPERIENCE ON THE FACE OF THE EARTH, AND
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| PROTECTION AND CHILD SURRENDER. Erik
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| | STILL HELP. It's not about you, but it
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| Smith said that at the 'o7ACC
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| | is. You don't have to say what you did
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| conference, and I think it is brilliant.
| |
| | was wrong or right, but let's go further
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| Child protection is CPS and state removal
| |
| | now. Let's make it ALL right for
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| for the benefit and welfare of a child.
| |
| | everyone.
|
| While that system does have concerning
| |
| | And that means accepting the bad parts of
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| issues as well with lots of abuse and
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| | it, even if you did somehow contribute to
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| corruption, it does result in children
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| | it. I will not say that makes you a
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| that need homes. It is involuntary, it is
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| | terrible person, it means that you have
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| necessary; it is for the good of the
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| | learned and grown. We, as a society, as a
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| child.
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| | community, as a people, have to be able
|
| Child surrender is voluntary, it is often
| |
| | to see, recognize and call out what is
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| not really necessary, but made out to be
| |
| | wrong in order to make it right. If you
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| beneficial. The real "good" of the child
| |
| | don't all into the category of what was
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| is questionable depending on your
| |
| | wrong then that statement is not about
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| personal interpretation of what is
| |
| | you. Don't make it about you. If the shoe
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| "better". Often fraught with myths, and
| |
| | doesn't fit, I am not forcing it on your
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| misinformation that sways the
| |
| | foot. Just acknowledge that the shoe is
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| participants to be involved for the
| |
| | there.
|
| benefit of the agency and, often, the
| |
| | THE REAL TRUTH ABOUT ADOPTION IS HORRIBLY
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| desires of the paying clients, the
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| | RAW, FREQUENTLY UGLY AND OFTEN UNJUST. I
|
| perspective adoptive parents. It is
| |
| | know that is hard, I really do. It hurts,
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| finding children to fit the needs of the
| |
| | it makes us uncomfortable and it makes us
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| industry which is based on transferring
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| | question everything we ever thought,
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| the parental rights from one party to
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| | everything we ever believed, every
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| another for a profit. The rights of the
| |
| | decision we ever made. It's hard, but
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| unwed mother and the unwed father's
| |
| | that is the crux of the issue; Adoption
|
| rights cannot be ignored no matter how
| |
| | is HARD. It's is difficult to navigate
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| easy it might be to judge them, or worry
| |
| | for us all. If it was easy, then none of
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| about the future financial burden on the
| |
| | us would be here. We would just do this
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| taxpayer's money.
| |
| | one time act: adopt, be born, relinquish
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| THERE ARE ENOUGH ADOPTEES WHO SEARCH, WHO
| |
| | and never look back. It really would be
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| ARE IN DAMAGED, WHO HURT OR ARE JUST NOT
| |
| | the same as having a baby, being born to
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| THRILLED THAT THEY ARE ADOPTED THAT WE
| |
| | one set of parents, or never having a
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| SHOULD CARE. They might not hate their
| |
| | baby, but it doesn't work like that. The
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| lives totally or even at all, but
| |
| | adoption industry wants us to believe it
|
| adoption adds a whole bunch of baggage to
| |
| | is the same, they say it is, but they are
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| their load that they must carry. Some had
| |
| | wrong, it's a lifelong process for us
|
| parents that rocked and some had parents
| |
| | all.
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| that did harm, mostly though, I bet they
| |
| | Sometimes, it gets to be too much. It is
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| had parents that tried their best, made
| |
| | just too darn heavy of a load to carry.
|
| mistakes, and loved them lots. The fact
| |
| | It becomes too deep, too convoluted, and
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| is though, that if a child does not need
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| | our heads and hearts spin. We get freaked
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| to be separated from their original
| |
| | out, we need a break, there is so much to
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| family, then the great majority of child
| |
| | battle, so many venues and issues. It
|
| welfare professionals, from the United
| |
| | wears us all down. People need to
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| Nations to UNICEF plus many others, agree
| |
| | recharge and not think about adoption for
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| that children are best off with kin. It
| |
| | a little while; we go back to denial for
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| is a person's birthright to be with
| |
| | a while, pretend to be normal. People say
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| family.
| |
| | things that get us upset, generalizations
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| To top it off, many voluntary infant
| |
| | are made and we feel on the defensive, we
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| adoptions in this country never were and
| |
| | have to speak up, the negativity gets us
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| still are not necessary. Imagine growing
| |
| | down, nothing will ever change.
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| up with the most important and foundation
| |
| | ADOPTION FACTS ARE JUST THAT: FACTS. You
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| building relationship of your life,
| |
| | cannot change the truth. Adoption will
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| aborted without logical reason, before
| |
| | not change if we hide in our holes, in a
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| you could even voice your own opinions.
| |
| | safe area, and do not test ourselves,
|
| Call it a Primal Wound, call it adoptee
| |
| | push the envelope, get discouraged, run
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| issues, call it a matter of adoptee
| |
| | away, or bury our head in the sands. Then
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| rights, our children had no choice and
| |
| | in 20, 30, 40 years, we will be old and
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| they had no voice. Now, they do.
| |
| | gray, drooling, and our children will be
|
| ADOPTED PERSONS ARE DENIED THEIR CIVIL
| |
| | facing the same issues, writing on blogs
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| RIGHT TO HAVE ACCESS TO THE ORIGINAL
| |
| | and boards trying to make sense of it
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| BIRTH CERTIFICATES and are frequently
| |
| | all.
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| torn and caught between two sets of
| |
| | It's not about what you did or did not
|
| parents who have their own needs and
| |
| | do. It is not about what I did or did not
|
| issues. They are not abnormal, or
| |
| | do. It is not about who is right or who
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| damaged, nor bitter, nor angry, but they
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| | is wrong. It's not about what you knew or
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| are people who we all need to learn from
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| | didn't know. It's not about whether you
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| so that we can do better for the next
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| | fit that generalization or not. It's not
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| generation. They have the keys to tell us
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| | even about what offends and hurts you.
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| what we need to fix in adoption.
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| | It's about being able to speak clearly
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| There are enough adoptees and natural
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| | and make others understand, talk about
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| parents searching for each other that we
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| | the truth, the hard stuff, process that,
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| cannot humanly deny that it is a primal
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| | and then improve it. It's about growing
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| and necessary urge in many cases. It's
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| | and changing. It is about understanding.
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| not a whim, not a phase, nor a sign if
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| | It is about seeing my mistakes and yours
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| immaturity, nor selfishness, nor of poor
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| | and learning how to not make them again.
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| adoptive parenting, or anything else
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| | It is about the collective body of
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| might we believe. It is just the truth:
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| | knowledge that we all must "get".
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| adoptees have two sets of parents,
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| | Adoption is too vast, too wide of an
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| adoptive and birth parents, and often a
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| | ocean with too many nuances. We only have
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| need to know and have relationships with
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| | one life and we cannot all live though
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| both.
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| | every aspect of it for a total picture.
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| WE CANNOT SAY "ADOPTION IS ALWAYS
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| | We have to learn from each other.
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| WONDERFUL" NOR EVEN FOCUS ON ONLY THE
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| | Every time one of us speaks one iota of
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| POSITIVE AND REFUSE TO SEE THE BIRTH
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| | truth to someone else, the knowledge of
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| MOTHERS GRIEF AND ADOPTEE LOSS. While
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| | truth grows. Little by little, one person
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| there are many happy adoption stories,
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| | at a time, we can make a difference. The
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| many parents who adore their children and
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| | adoption community can touch each other,
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| children that adore their parents; there
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| | we can support each other. We all grow,
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| are also enough stories of adoptees who
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| | we understand adoption better. As
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| got bad deals, adoptees who got good
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| | players in the adoption arena, we have a
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| deals but still have enough issues, and
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| | moral obligation to make things better.
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| relinquishing parents who just totally
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| | If not us, those who live it, then who?
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| got screwed in various degrees. It can be
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| | I challenge everyone to stretch the
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| good, it can be bad and it can be all the
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| | boundaries of your mind and unlearn what
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| variants in between. The negative,
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| | you think you know about adoption. Find
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| though, is very bad and threatens all our
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| | truth. Speak truth. Accept truth. Spread
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| good. We should all care enough to make
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| | truth. And then think what the next step?
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| it much better for not just our own
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| | What can you do to make adoption better?
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| needs, not just for our children, but as
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| | How can, we, as a society, not care about
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| a legacy of improvement to leave behind
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| | fixing adoption as a corrupt and
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| for future generations.
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| | antiquated institution?
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| I MAY GENERALIZE AND STATE THAT "ADOPTION
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| | I don't care about how you got by my
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| IS BAD", BUT I DON'T MEAN YOUR ADOPTION
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| | side, who you are, color, creed, place in
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| NECESSARILY. I still don't need you to
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| | the triad, age or adoption era; all I
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| tell me how you were above board, super
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| | care about is if you are at my side or
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| ethical, checked out everything, or
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| | not. We all need to work together, use
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| begged your child's mother to seriously
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| | our collective voice, and cry out to fix
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| look into parenting. I don't need to hear
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| | adoption. Face the facts about adoption,
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| about how she really IS a crack whore or
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| | then you must demand ethical reformation.
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