| In the UK, this week is Adoption Week.
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| | Adoption as a procedure, but that it is
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| The one time of the year when all the
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| | what it is. In an attempt to heighten and
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| Organisations and Charities involved in
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| | increase the awareness of Adoption,
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| all the aspects of Adoption get together
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| | Organisations involved tend to couch
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| to try and help raise the awareness of
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| | their terms in warm comfortable
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| what Adoption is really all about.
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| | phraseology that tends to wash over the
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| Now in theory this is all "fine and
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| | fact that for every "warm cuddly adoptive
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| dandy" (to coin a phrase) but as with all
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| | family" waiting to welcome into their
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| things (Adoption is no different) there
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| | arms "the child of their dreams" their
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| are Winners and there are losers.
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| | will be sometimes be a Birth Mother who
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| Now it may be a crime of immense
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| | is going to be forever separated from her
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| political incorrectness to look at this
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| | child.
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| way but there really isn't any other
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| | Now in a great many cases, this entire
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| truthful way of looking at it.
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| | process is for the better but in the past
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| It is called the "Adoption Triangle", the
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| | the separation of birth mother and child
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| Holy Trinity of Adoption, The three sided
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| | has quite often been a forced and painful
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| equation but in reality there is more.
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| | one and there are very few Birth Mothers
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| On the surface of it there is just the
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| | in existence today who haven't thought
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| Birth Mother, the adopted child and the
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| | regularly of the child they had and what
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| Adoptive Parents but would that it was
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| | could, possibly might have been.
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| that simple. In reality the adoption
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| | People forget that the role of being a
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| triangle involves two families in total.
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| | Birth Mother isn't always filled by the
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| On the Birth Families side you have the
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| | Alcoholic drug ridden typecast incapable
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| Birth Parents (everyone tends to forget
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| | young girl, the image so lovingly played
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| about the Father), the adopted child's
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| | upon by some Adoption organisations.
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| siblings (that's brothers and sisters to
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| | Quite often the conception and actual
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| you and me) and their Grandparents,
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| | birth of a child is a complete social
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| Uncles & Aunts etc.
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| | disaster for a number of reasons some of
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| On the adoptive families side there are
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| | which lie beyond the control of the birth
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| an equally large number of involved
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| | mother herself. The adoption is a
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| personnel (albeit to a different degree)
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| | traumatic experience that will leave
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| and these all will have in truth some
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| | scars of guilt forever etched in the
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| impact though none fall into
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| | psyche of the birth mother herself.
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| consideration when the Adoption is
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| | It is said that time is great healer but
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| processed.
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| | there are some scars and experiences that
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| It sounds cold and clinical to talk of
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| | even time cannot heal.
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