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Thoughts on Abortion

HOW CAN ONE PREVENT AN ABORTION1) their second child, but tests revealed
Abstinence2) If abstinence is not that the fetus had some severe
practical, use safe birth control methods deformities. Most of the brain never
- Although there are many Christians who developed, the gastro-intestinal tract
believe sex is only for the purpose of was external, rather than internal, and
procreation, I believe sex can also be the spine was severly deformed. The
used as the deepest physical expression doctors assured them that the child would
of love for your partner, even if your never live more than a month, would never
goal at the moment is not to have be sentient, and might actually
children. Therefore using safe birth experience some pain. Also, the cost to
control methods for this purpose would be care for such a child for even a few days
one way in preventing one to consider would be astronomical. But rather than
having an abortion because of an unwanted abort, they decided to have the baby, and
pregnancy. And I also believe that there everything happened just as the doctors
is nothing in Scripture that prohibits had said. The deformities were awful, and
one from using such an approach.3) it was obvious the baby was in pain. It
Allowing pregnancies to come to term, and died in just about a month, and cost a
then putting the unwanted children up for bundle. It was a horrible series of
adoption, if still unwanted. The events to witness. I can't even imagine
following are thoughts on adoption:1. what the parents might have felt. In that
Steven says: In the U. S. there are 5 case, I honestly would have favored an
requirements to be eligible for adoption. abortion. That's why I remain pro-choice.
They are: 1) You must be over 18 years of Every situation is different, and
age, 2) You must be a resident of your ultimately, the choice is an individual
state for 5 years, 2) You must be able to one.6) Jennifer says: I have walked into
provide financially for the child, 4) You planned parenthood clinics to get birth
must be able to provide a safe home for control/pregnancies tests, etc, and it
the child, and 5) You cannot have been really bothered me when you see young
convicted of a felony. Notice! It no girls in there bragging about this being
longer matters if you're single, married, their third abortion. It angers me
gay, over a certain age, or the same race because this is immoral.7) Shirley says:
as the child. However, there are unspoken I'm in favor of women being allowed to
prejudices that are practiced by social choose, though I'd prefer prevention
workers who do not agree with this where possible.8) Jane says: I fully
criteria. The laws may say they cannot support an absolute ban on all abortions
discriminate, but they find ways around for any reason. I think if Christians put
it. Also there is much extortion by those their faith and trust in God, there would
responsible for placing children up for be no need for abortions. If a woman does
adoption. I've experienced this find herself impregnated for any reason,
personally. I finally did find a place however, and her life is in danger as a
where I could adopt at reasonable cost result, she should still lay down her
and with a limited waiting period. It's life for the unborn, if necessary.
called "Special Link" in South Carolina, "Whoever will save her life, will lose
and their mission is to finds homes for it, and whoever will lose her life, will
those kids who are hard to place. It took save it". A quote from Jesus Christ.9)
us just one month to adopt a child. What David says: There is no place for an
a blessing.2. Janet says: There are abortion in this society.10) Grace says:
plenty of couples who would love to adopt What about a case where the child is
children but can't because there aren't already dead in the womb, or a case where
enough, due to abortion. I've experience you have an esoteric pregnancy where
this with my teenage daughter who wanted there's no chance the child will survive
to put her baby up for adoption and found a birth procedure, and in both cases, it
so many applicants waiting to be could be life threatening to the
considered by her, as she wanted to mother?11) Frank says: I am pro-choice,
engage in this process personally. not pro-abortion. We want abortions to
However, I do think that the adoption stop just as everyone else would. But I
laws should be refined and more feel I don't have the right to tell
importance should be put on love anyone else what choice they should
available instead of money. Kids don't make.12) Joan says: Frank, that argument
need their own room with a TV and VCR - doesn't go very far in life. You may not
they need parents to love and care for think we have a choice in telling people
them. I think the foster parenting system what to do, but take into consideration
should be revamped also and adoption laws that we have laws and rules everywhere we
changed to side with the child more than go in life. If telling someone they can't
birth parents. Too many people have murder someone else isn't a good stance
children and abuse them, but the gov't to take, I don't know what is.13) Frank
won't take them away from them says: You're right, Vicki, but the
permanently because they gave birth to ultimate answer is to find ways to
them. Big deal! My opinion is that birth prevent people from ever getting into a
parents should be given a set amount of situation where they would even consider
time to straighten out, or the children the option of having an abortion.14)
should be put up for adoption. I have Corbin says: Sometimes I feel
seen so many kids moved from foster home Pro-Choicers are more concerned with the
to foster home because the birth mother quality of life, whereas Pro-Lifers
is fighting off drug addiction, (so-called) are more concerned with the
alcoholism, schizophrenia, etc. The quantity of life.A 2nd Internet question
mother never straightens out and the that I asked on the web sites was whether
children never find a home and grow up as one should believe in bombing abortion
messed up as their mother.3. Corbin says: clinics and/or killing abortion
I don't advocate abortion, but even with activists. Most suggested that two wrongs
abortion, I still see many unwanted kids don't make a right, while one lone
out there.4. Janet says: Corbin, I think individual agreed with this supposition,
you really have to define what you mean and stated many believe in capital
by "unwanted". As I said before, there punishment for murderers.3rd Internet
are children whose birth parents don't Question: WHEN DOES LIFE BEGIN, AND WHAT
want them, but that doesn't mean no one IS LIFE?1) Jim says: Life begins at
wants them. Heck. If it were possible, I conception. And that's a scientific
would take all of them.5. Sylvia says: I fact.2) Steven says: Of course, if one
think that if the laws and restrictions believes in reincarnation, than the
on adoptions were not so strict, then ramifications of this question are fairly
more people would adopt. The system is pointless. And what about belief in the
only hurting the children, not helping immortal soul - if the soul is immortal,
them. A couple has to wait a long time then this life is, again, fleeting.3)
for the adoption to take place, resulting Jonathon says: Oh WOW, you do go for the
in babies of today becoming young kids.6. easy questions, don't you! I dont' think
Janet says. One of the problems in there is a straightforward answer to
adopting is that the monetary this. Life at conception is potential not
restrictions are so tough that many actual, in the sense of being able to
loving people just can't afford to adopt survive independently.4) Sarah says: I
any child.7. James says: Only a small believe life begins at conception. What
percentage of those applying to adopt animates living things. It is sustained
actually are allowed to adopt. The social by breathing. When a child is in the
workers involved are really implying that mother's womb, its life is sustained by
about 75% of the population are not fit the oxygen (obtained by her breathing) in
to be parents.4) Be more loving with more her blood. When it is born it is
open communication, and less condemnation sustained by its own breathing.5) James
by surrounding relationships.5) Gender says: On a personal level I have always
Equality - If women were granted equal considered it no earlier than that the
opportunities in all areas of life, they fetus could survive outside the womb.
would be thought of more as individuals Perhaps what worries me most about the
rather than as sex objects, therefore idea of making a person a legal person is
reducing the possibilities of their how it affects the rights of the mother
having many unwanted pregnancies.6) Mixed as a human being. For instance , if the
Nudity - If mixed nudity were less mother miscarries, and the fetus is
frowned upon, curiosity about the legally a person, then won't every mother
nakedness of the woman's body would be who miscarries have to be investigated
less of a reason for males to be sexually and tried for reckless endangerment,
driven toward having sex with women that manslaughter, or even murder. It's this
could produce many unwanted pregnancies. nightmare that really worries me.6)
I know in my 3 year stint at a nudest Andrew says: Someone once said "Life is
camp I noticed that after a while I never nothing but a slither of light in between
viewed anybody as being naked; I just saw two immensities of darkness". But I
them as individualsQUESTIONS RELATING TO believe that life really begins when we
THE REALITY OF ABORTION1st Internet are able to live independently in God's
Question: SHOULD ABORTIONS BE PERMITTED creation.7) James says: Life actually
A) TO SAVE THE LIFE OF THE MOTHER, B) begins when God can see your substance.
RAPE, C) INCEST, D) DEFORMITY OF THE But life as known by the individual does
FETUS, E) ECONOMIC REASONS, F) EMOTIONAL not really begin until there is a
INSTABILITY, G) AFTER HAVING AN IN-DEPTH consciousness of things around you and
COUNSELING SESSION OR SESSIONS, OR H) NO you truly begin to relate to
LIMITATIONS? CHOOSE ONE OR MORE OF THE living.THERE'S ONE WEBSITE WHICH SUGGESTS
ABOVE EXCEPTIONS TO NO ABORTIONS THAT ABORTION IS NOT ANTI-BIBLICALThe
ALLOWED.THE RESPONSES COME FROM 3 author suggests that Scripture should not
CHRISTIAN WEBSITES.1) John says: I'm be read out of context to prove a point,
against all abortions, even to save the and that there is no place in the Bible
life of the mother because the unborn that points to the fact that the fetus is
child still has no say in the decision, a human being., only a potential human
and the power of prayer is more decisive being.1) Psalm 139:13-16 indicates that
than a medical opinion.2) Corbin says: I God is very much involved in our
personally would only choose abortions creation, but not that the fetus is
after an in-depth counseling session or actually a human being.2) Jeremiah 1:4-10
sessions to make sure that the parties indicates that God knew Jeremiah before
involved fully understand that an he was even conceived suggesting that if
abortion was not the only possible you consider the fetus as a human being,
alternative for them. I'm generally not it must have been a human being before
in favor of abortions, but as a paradox conception.3) Jeremiah 1:4-10, & Luke
it seems that in leaving the option open 1:39-41 indicates that these verses only
for a woman to have an abortion, you will relate to Jeremiah & John the Baptist.4)
have fewer and safer abortions. This is Ecclesiastes 4:1-3 suggests it might be
because legal options give you the better to abort than to cause one to live
freedom to make a choice, and when you a miserable life-5) Numbers 3:15 A census
have this, you more often are more was taken of those who were only over 1
relaxed to make the right choice. Without month old indicating that fetuses were
legal choice, you more often become not considered human beings in Biblical
desparate and make the wrong choice. times.WITH THIS LATTER INFORMATION ON
Also, as more and more unwanted babies BIBLICAL INTERPRETATION, WHEN DO YOU
(by their more immediate relationships) THINK THE SOUL WOULD CONNECT WITH THE
are being born, you're also paving the BODY? WOULD IT BE WHEN THE BODY RECEIVES
way for more potential future conflict A CONSCIENCE? IF THIS WERE TRUE, WOULD
being created by the unwanted, as well.3) THIS ALTAR YOUR POSITION ON SOME
Jonathon says: I think Bill Clinton once ABORTIONS? WHAT DO YOU THINK?The names of
said that abortion should be legal, safe, the commentarians, except for myself,
and rare, and it is the latter we need to have been changed to protect the privacy
work on - perhaps more concentration, not of the Internet contributors, but their
on trying to prevent women in choosing comments are accurate.AN AUTOBIOGRAPHICAL
abortion as a legal option, but on the SKETCHI was born in New York City in
prevention of unwanted pregnancies.4) 1931, grew up on Long Island, graduated
Sarah says: Deciding who gets aborted and from Roanoke College in Virginia with a
under what circumstances is playing God. BA in Political Science, from New York
I am one of those unwanted babies and so Theological Seminary with a Masters in
is my husband. How on earth could anyone Religious Education. I became a
have really known 3 decades ago that it committed Christian in 1958, and after a
would have been for the best to abort us. number of years became a committed
We have had AWESOME lives and contributed Ecumenical Christian. I worked as an
much to society. We are both highly accountant in various companies for about
educated, responsible individuals. We 25 years in New York City, then moved
have both known from early childhood of down to Argentina and worked for about 21
our difficult beginnings, and been years as a Business English
greatly loved by our adoptive parents. converstionalist teacher with some of
Yes, our moms had a rough 9 months the top managers. I also became a
carrying us and then I am sure, a Stephen Minister (trained counselor)
difficult time in giving us up. But in while down here. I've been married twice
exchange for those inconveniences, we (the last to an Argentine), widowed once,
have lead incredible lives.5) James says: have no children, but one cat. If you
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