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Article #147: Baby Showers for Adoptive Parents

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We all hear about baby showers for lasts about two hours, so look at playing
expecting parents, but what about for two to three party games. If the new
adopting parents? An adoption baby parents are adopting an older child, make
shower is more than acceptable - it's sure your games reflect that as well.
encouraged! Adopting parents have the One great adoption party activity is to
same needs as any other new parents organize a Welcome Book for the new
would, but with a few minor child. Ask guests to bring pictures of
considerations. themselves and their families to assemble
You should steer clear of planning a into a scrapbook page they will create at
surprise celebration on the day the the shower.
family brings their child home. This can All of your shower decorations will
be a very emotional time - the new naturally depend on the style, theme, and
parents and child (especially if the number of people attending. Balloons and
child is older) will need a period of streamers are standard, but there are a
adjustment. It is very important to be lot of creative and fun ideas to make the
sensitive to their needs. In this case, party extra-special. You're truly only
delivering care packages and planning limited by your imagination here.
your celebration for a later date would If the adoption is an international one,
be acceptable and appreciated. Be sure you could use decorations that reflect
to talk with the new parents and find out the child's place of birth, and include
what their wants and needs are before you recipes from his or her home country.
set a shower date. For guests, it will be a learning
Your shower invitations should be sent experience.
out three to four weeks in advance, and As with decorations, party favors should
should include the time, date, and match your shower theme and party size.
location of the shower. Don't forget to Your favors can be used as place
set an RSVP date with your telephone settings, prizes, or they can be handed
number and address. If it is at all out at the end of the party. A very
possible, include the child's birth date, popular idea for adoption showers is a
as well as when he or she was officially special program for guests to keep.
adopted or welcomed into the home of his Written inside should be commitments to
or her new parents. This will help your the child from his or her new parents,
guests to pick age appropriate gifts. In poems about love, family, and adoption,
the case of foreign adoptions, you could and prayers for the future.
also add information about the birth When labeling your favor, keep in mind
country to inform your guests. that your party is, again, in honor of an
As with other baby showers, the theme for adoption, not a birth. Your wording on
an adoption baby shower should be the gift tags should reflect that.
same. However, if the child that was Adoption is a very exciting time for the
adopted is older, you should tailor your new parents. A baby shower or welcome
party to suit their age and favorite party allows friends and family members
things. For example, a small girl might to share in on the family's joy. When
love everything that involves the Disney you host or even attend such a party, it
princesses and may go absolutely crazy is very important to know the needs and
over the color pink. In turn, an older wants of the parents. Be sure to know
boy may be fascinated by soccer and ahead of time how old the child is. Find
anything green. Don't be afraid to be a out if the parents have registered
little creative to help make the party a anywhere. Parents who are adopting
special celebration to welcome the new should be reminded that they can actually
child into your circle of family and register for older children as well as
friends! newborns.
Baby shower games are important too! By planning and hosting an adoption
However, stay away from games that are party, you are helping the new family
maternity-related. It's very important formalize the acceptance of their child
that you keep in mind that you are into their circle. You will be creating
celebrating the gift of adoption. Your an occasion that will be documented for
games help set the tone of the party, and the child to look at in the future and
should be mixed in with any other remind them how much they were welcomed
activity going on. An average shower and loved from the start.






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