| PSYCHOLOGICAL PREPARATION BEFORE DUE -
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| | something from others. To trust yourself!
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| PART 1
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| | You will be driven by the instinct of
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| Are your ready to be parents? If it is
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| | love to a correct way caring your baby.
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| the first time for you to become parents,
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| | THINKING ABOUT YOUR OWN PARENTS
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| psychological preparation is one of the
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| | The best way to learn how to foster a
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| most important things.
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| | baby is to think about your own parents.
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| PSYCHOLOGICAL FACTOR 1: DO NOT THINK
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| | The way you parent your own children
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| PARENTING IS SO COMPLICATED
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| | actually will be affected a lot by the
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| There are so many exciting and uncertain
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| | way your parents treated to you. Think
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| things in the journey of becoming the new
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| | about it, to see what you can learn from
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| parents. You might be worry so much about
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| | them and what was not very good which
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| less experiences of parenting due to it
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| | will be thrown away. Write down on your
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| is the first time to become dad and mom.
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| | dairy in case you can not remember in the
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| Do not worry! Actually, parenting is not
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| | future. It is very useful for you to
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| such a complicated thing as expected. The
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| | become a good dad and mom.
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| first step you could do is to adjust
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| | ACCUMULATE EXPERIENCES
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| yourself in psychological way.
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| | The experiences caring baby is
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| BE CONFIDENT
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| | accumulated day by day. You will find
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| Enough confidence is very important to
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| | that you learn how to parent your child
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| new dad and mom, because only you can be
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| | during parenting. The trust between you
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| the best person to foster your baby; no
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| | and your child will be built up in this
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| others can do this job except yourself.
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| | journey. Through this journey, you are
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| Your baby will trust you only if you
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| | becoming mature.
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| trust yourself.
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| | Psychological factor 5: Do not add
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| DO NOT BE SCARED BY OTHERS
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| | pressure on yourself
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| You must be talking a lot about caring
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| | Becoming good parents does not mean you
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| baby with your family and friends to
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| | have to give up your original interests
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| intend to obtain some experiences from
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| | and freedom, and put all of energy into
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| them. You must be reading a lot of
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| | looking after your baby. You should have
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| magazines, papers and articles which tell
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| | normal sexual life and have good
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| you how to become parents. Some times,
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| | communication between each other. A
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| they are really confused. Some times they
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| | harmonious family will give your child a
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| are even conflict each other. Do not
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| | positive affect, and it is helpful to his
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| believe that they always talk all the
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| | her future.
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| truth. Do not be scared when you heard
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