International Adoption Agencies - Dealing when Dreams of Adoption are Fading

It had been three long years for both Karen andapplications had met the conditions.
David Richards. They had been waiting to bring homeThe agency based in Windham provides humanitarian
a young Romanian girl to adopt. They had kept aaid in Romania and helped the New Hampshire families
photograph of Larissa on the side of their refrigeratorfind children to adopt. The Director said that people
only to be told at the last minute by theirfamiliar with Romanian politics did not take the ban
International Adoption Agency that she had beentoo seriously at the time.
adopted and placed with a Romanian Family"If the moratorium is absolutely in effect, then
The Richards's are one of three families in NewRomanian officials would not be assigning children, but
Hampshire and more than 100 in the United Statesthey did," they said. "In many years Romania had
that have been stuck in the middle of a complexrules, laws and regulations, but the sad thing is that in
political situation involving Romania, the Europeana country that's recovering from Communism,
Union and the United States.everyone put their own interpretation into what was
During the course of the families' wait, Romania haslaw."
continually tightened its policies on internationalOnce families had seen a face and heard a name, it
adoptions in an effort to get into the European Union.became harder for them to consider that the
It now looks as if more families may end up withadoptions might not go through.
news like the Richards'sIn January 2003, Romania enacted a permanent ban
"Sometimes even with the help of the righton international adoptions, after the EU indicated that
International Adoption Agency, Overseas Adoptionssuch a law would be a requirement for the country's
don't always end as well as some people hope"ascension.
For another family, the Cohn's of Milford, the situationThe Romanian Prime Minister said that all of the
was just as bad. "For the first year and a half, wepipeline cases would be placed with Romanian families,
were very anxious," said Julie Ann Cohn, who filledaccording to the U.S. State Department and
out her application in 2002 and was matched with aRomanian press accounts. But last week, the
Romanian girl named Katherina in early 2003. "AndEuropean Union passed a resolution with an
now for us, it's more like it's sad. I feel like we'veamendment recommending that the country place
been in limbo for more than three years just hopingthe pipeline cases with foreign adoptive families.
and praying, but we just don't really know what'sThe outcome isn't clear. Edgar Vasquez, a spokesman
going to happen. We're waiting for a positivefor the U.S. State Department, said it's difficult to
outcome."predict what will happen to the adoptive families.
The situation in Romania was exacerbated by the fall"Of course we hope," he said. "We're deeply
of Romania's Communist government in 1989,concerned."
international attention was focused on the country'sJulie Ann Cohn said that the recent news from
thousands of orphans, many of whom lived inRomania may mean the end of her wait.
understaffed, state-run orphanages. Romania began"Once we know for sure that it's a no, absolutely set
offering abandoned children for international adoptionin stone, then we'll likely proceed to a different
in 1990, and many U.S. parents adopted them. Butcountry," she said. "When I think my heart is ready
reports of corruption over the years led to a seriesfor it."
of temporary bans. Such a moratorium was in placeKathleen Richard said that she was relieved to hear
when a family such as the Richards's applied to adopt.that Larissa had found a loving family, even if it
The International Adoption Agency that took thewasn't her own.
families' money and submitted their applications knew"I'm thankful that she finally has a family, because if
that there was a chance the applications wouldn't goshe can't be with us, I wanted her to have a family,"
through. But when all of the families received caseshe said. "That's what I was praying for. For me, it
numbers, names and photographs of the childrenwas just like a Christmas gift for her.
they would adopt, they assumed that their