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This extract is part of an online interview which was undertaken with members of the Writers Retreat at the Institute of Children's Literature in September 2008. For more than thirty five years, the Institute has offered the premier writing course for adults interested in learning how to write and be published for children and teens. Q: I've been working on a trilogy of time-travel novels, YA level (protagonist starts at 14 years and is 16 by the end) for nearly three years and I'm full of questions. About a year ago, I had an interesting exchange with an agent. She felt that in any time travel novel it was essential that the protagonist return home, to his/her own time, at the end of the book. I...

Are you as tired of this me, me, me perspective of life as I am? Have you been blessed with a home, a decent income, and the sweet companionship of a loving spouse, perhaps even children - and yet suddenly you've had the uncomfortable feeling of living just for yourselves; you've detected the "me, me, me" perspective in your own life? You have been given so much, you keep thinking, and then comes the question - is it possibly the time now that I, or we, are to give something in return to someone not as blessed - not our money, but the giving of ourselves, the sharing of ourselves with a special someone - perhaps a foster care adopted child? Imagine this foster child to be someone who never...

As a domestic relations attorney in Georgia, I often receive inquiries as to the rights of grandparents in that State. Generally, theses inquiries relate to three specific situations: grandparents wanting visitation rights to grandchildren; grandparents wanting custody of grandchildren; and grandparents merely wanting power of attorney or formal guardianship to temporarily care for grandchildren. While it is the express policy of the State of Georgia to encourage contact between grandchildren and grandparents who have shown the ability to act in the best interest of the children, in the State of Georgia grandparents have limited rights to grandchildren. In the case of visitation rights, a...

Finding parents after adoption can be a very a personal and often stressful journey for many.  There are a variety of reasons to why locating their birth parents is a very important process. Some people want to learn more, while others may just be curious or they need to know in order to feel complete. Although the process of finding parents after adoption in some respects has become easier, it still nonetheless requires some patience on your part. The first step for many is asking their adoptive parents the question. If they are willing to share information, then make note of it and ask all of the questions you can. Remember that every little bit helps. Ask if you can see the official adoption...

When speaking about International adoption, it is assumed people are talking about adopting from countries overseas such as China and Russia. Canadians adopting from the United States is also considered to be International adoption. Perhaps because of the close proximity, people do not look at it this way. The United States and Canada have two different citizenships, two different governments and are two totally different countries. However when it comes to International adoption, Canadians are at a definite advantage if choosing to adopt from the US. Because of the intimacy geographically to the US, potential adoptive parents from Canada have the alternative of searching for a kid themselves...

Adoption: What is it? When an individual takes full parental custody over a child that is not biologically theirs, that process is called adoption. During this process (or perhaps even beforehand), the natural parents of the child relinquish all their rights and responsibilities regarding the child. After the adoption process, the adoptive parents become the legal guardians of the child, empowered to deal with him or her in much the same way that they would deal with one of their own. Why are children put up for adoption? Children are put up for adoption for various reasons. One reason is that the parents of a child may have died or are otherwise incapacitated with regards to providing for his or...

A Wealth of Family Alpha Multimedia, Inc. (2006) ISBN 0977462935 Reviewed by Paige Lovitt for Reader Views (6/06) "A Wealth of Family" has something to be enjoyed or learned by people from all walks of life, no matter what your gender, socio-economic background or culture. This is a fantastic book. It centers on Brooks upbringing as an adopted black men who wanted to find his roots. I found it difficult to write this review because his story touched me in so many ways, it was hard for me to narrow down which area I enjoyed the greatest or which part of his life experiences taught me the most. In spite of our differences (gender, race, upbringing) I learned a lot about myself as I read. I...

#ffffff;" /> It all depends on how birth parents and stepparents get along with each other. If everyone involved is friendly with one another than no special arrangements need to made and the bride and groom can plan the wedding however they want. However, this is rarely the case. If there is some problem with birth parents and stepparents, this article will outline some guidelines that can assist the stepmother in following correct wedding etiquette. Begin by thinking of the wedding invitations for divorced parents. Traditionally, the parents of the bride will host the wedding ceremony and they will be first on the wedding invitation. It is proper etiquette to have the mother and father on separate...

Here is the problem: mothers who have used formulas simply because it is much easier (especially for working moms) have heard all the hype about how important it is to breast feed and experience extreme guilt. The point is that to use an alternative to breast feeding is a health hazard for your baby. Nonetheless, in a large percent of the cases under discussion in this article, it is not possible for a mother to breast feed. Therefore, there is a necessity to advertise and promote baby formulas. Unfortunately, many women who do not, out of some kind of misunderstanding, breast feed and then later these women are overcome by an extreme sense of guilt. The high quality of many formulas is, of...

Dealing with stepmothers can be a difficult situation. A lot depends on how the stepmother and biological mother get along. If the two mothers get along than the wedding can be planned however the couple wants. However, this is a rare thing. If there is some problem, the guidelines that follow can assist the stepmother in following correct etiquette for the wedding of her stepchild. Begin by thinking about what the stepmother should wear. Usually, the stepmother should dress in the same way as other guests. The bride may want to include her stepmother in the preparations so it is proper wedding etiquette for her stepmother to wear similar styles and colors as the other mothers. However, it would not...

Adoption is near and dear to my heart, as I was an adopted infant. I have researched adopting hard to place kids, and was happy to find that with some of the struggles that are unique to adopted families, the expense of bringing that dream home is offset with a tax credit. While the cost of raising a child cannot be calculated to make it financially profitable, having a tax adoption credit available makes adoption much more achievable for many families that long for a child. If you have started the adoption process, you know the costs associated can be overwhelming. The tax laws for adoption credit are fairly generous. Any direct expenses, such as travel, attorney, court and other legal costs, are...

In the state of California adoption is actually a rather simple process. Once you have determined that you want to adopt your stepchild, you will need to take specific legal steps to do so. This article will explain what to consider during the adoption process, how to get the documents needed for free, and what to expect from the process. First, adoption is a very serious thing to consider before acting. You do not want to make a rash decision that could have a long term effect on a child's welfare. If you are sincere in your wishes to adopt your stepchild, then you should not rush into it. Take some time to consider the long term importance of taking responsibility for this child the same as you...

Sara poked her head into the playroom to check in on Lilly. She saw her daughter happily playing with her Asian dolls. Like so many days, Lilly was having a tea party with her imaginary friends, complete with Asian dinnerware, cookies, and homemade place mats. She was lost in her play time and it brought a smile to the face of her mother. Several years ago when Sara adopted Lily from China it was the happiest day of her life. As they boarded the plane for the flight back to America, she thought of all the wonderful opportunities Lilly would have in the States. Yet Sara was very mindful of how important it would be for Lilly to love and respect her birth culture. Many adoptive parents share this very...

Hollywood celebrities have played a huge role in popularizing the concept of child adoption all over the United States of America. From Angelina Jolie to Madonna, the list of celebrity adoptive parents is endless. While this has inspired several Americans to go for child adoption, a number of state agencies and government departments have found that there are several adoptive parents who are finding it increasingly difficult to cope with their new role as parents. This in turn has underlined the important role that home studies can play in ascertaining if the prospective parents will prove to be good guardians for their children. If you are contemplating adoption, it will be useful for you to know...

Over the last couple of years the number of international adoptions has increased quite substantially as can be seen from international adoption graphs. In this article we are going to look at some of the facts revealed by international adoption graphs for those of you who may be interested in learning more about international adoption. One document which contains international adoption graphs and useful information for adoption in general is the "Adoption Data and Statistical Trends" study put out by Frank Biafora and Dawn Esposito, both of St John's University. This report specifically covers international adoptions and domestic adoptions in the United States. According to this study 5% of all...

I did a session with a birthmom today that left me with a lot on my mind. She gave up son up in what was supposed to be an open adoption, but the agency refused to commit anything about that to paper. Even though the birthmom spoke with the adoptive parents and they agreed to regular visits, pictures and ongoing contact, there was nothing to prove that they had made that commitment. In point of fact, the adoptive parents refused this birthmom contact with her son for 18 years. Only when he was old enough to start making his own decisions did she get to see him. This birthmom was very angry, and felt betrayed. How could she feel anything but betrayed, under the circumstances? An agreement had been...

The time to start thinking about birth announcements is during pregnancy! For adoptions, parents should start thinking about announcing their adoption early also. After the new baby arrives, the is directed toward the new child. For parents that are expecting twins, triplets or multiples, it is even more important to think ahead about the birth announcements cards! Pregnancy and the time before a baby adoption often bring family and friends together. Baby and adoption showers may allow those close to the parents to have the opportunity to give gifts for the new baby. Baby thank you cards are a necessity during the pregnancy, after the baby is born, and pre and post the adoption date. If parents...

Hello Friends, This will be one of the most emotional articles that I will ever write. A little background into why I say this is I am now 46 years old. I married my wonderful wife Michelle when I was 23 and she was 18. We started our life together wanting to have a family and be like all the other friends and family members we had. Well, God had other ideas about what would be good for us! After about 5 years and no success we started going to doctors to have all the tests run that can be run. All the results came back the same, no problems with either one of us! What was going on? Finally after 6 years of marriage my wife became pregnant! OH BOY! We were so excited! The family was thrilled...

Adoption agencies are organizations that help people through the adoption process. The services they provide vary. Some of the services they may provide are home studies, pre-placement counseling, post-placement counseling and child placement services. Agencies also vary by their focus of services. Some provide public domestic adoption, private domestic adoption, special needs adoption or international adoption. Finding the right adoption agency for you is important, and the information that follows may help you begin your journey to adoption. First, let's talk about some of the services adoption agencies provide. Pre-placement counseling is often done as part of the application process. This is the...

A volunteer organization devoted to the welfare of stray and homeless dogs in the Austin area, Blue Dog Rescue offers hope for hundreds of dogs every year that otherwise would face euthanization. By providing fostering and home placement services, Blue Dog Rescue's team of volunteers give these beautiful dogs a second chance at life and the loving homes they deserve. Many dogs end up in shelters because of irresponsible breeding practices. Dogs Rescue supports the spaying and neutering of pets to prevent these unwanted births. They have a strict policy of sterilization for all dogs over six months of age, and require prospective owners to agree to sterilize puppies under six months at the...

ugh there are many children waiting for adoption, they are not the children that you might be thinking of. Orphaned children desperately need love, but they can be a very difficult lot. Many of them are special needs children, or children with severe emotional damage. Some of them have been abused early in life, or have been deeply injured by the trauma of losing a parent. Whatever the reason, if you opt to get a child waiting for adoption, you have to be in it all the way. You can't just be in love with the idea of having a cute little kid who depends on you. You have to be the mature adult who can satisfy that child's deep emotional needs. Many of the children waiting for adoption do not come from...

There are a few different avenues you should investigate if you are interested in pug puppy adoption. Pugs are very popular pets and have been crossbred with many other varieties to produce many different sized pugs. Pugs generally weigh less than 18 pounds and are black, white and fawn in color. Some difficulties can arise from crossbreeding pugs so there are some considerations you need to take into account when adopting a pug puppy. Pugs are available at pet store but you need to be very careful of the health of these puppies. Pet store animals tend to originate from puppy mills that horrendous and every effort should be made to not support organizations that use these mills. However if your pet...

Are you planning to settle elsewhere? If you are seeking for greener pastures, you may find it hard to deal with immigration laws. Securing a new citizenship is no joke and there are so many things that you need to attend to like VISA and other paperwork. Millions of people want to migrate to the US, Canada, UK, and other countries but most of them fail. If you truly want to succeed in your efforts to live in another country, you should consult with an experienced attorney or lawyer. Migrating legally to another country can take years but with some help, you can shorten the time frame. Getting immigration visa is not as easy as you think but it's not that difficult either! A qualified lawyer may be...

In the early hours of Dec 26th 2004 the Western world awoke to the unfolding horror that we came to know as the Asian Tsunami. Those of us still recovering from obscenely large amounts of food and drink from the previous day sat transfixed as we watched a horror story of biblical proportions unfold before our very eyes. The United Nations estimated that the Asian Tsunami left more than five million people homeless, including about 1.5 million children most of whom became orphaned. The outpouring of emotion from around the world was of mixed benefit as far as the region was concerned in that yes we all dug deep into our pockets and yes we all lobbied our Politicians to something about it and yes...

If you are the sixteen year-old girl that has just discovered what fertility means, it could be pretty devastating when she figures out what the consequence is. Or if you are a couple that has been using trying to have a child for years, there is one thing that will bring both parties together, adoption. Before ore even after you make the decision on wanting to adopt, there are a few tips that you should know about first. Know that there are many children all around the world that want to be adopted. The adoption process does take persistence and hope; it isn't easy so be aware. Check with your social service agency about information on adoption. Many Departments of Public Welfares can also provide...

I have recently had one of those moments where the little globe in my head popped and became a massive chandelier that waved at me, and I experienced an amazing moment. I followed this up by breaking an inch-thick piece of wood with one hand, but that is another story. I want to take a step back and give you some background from quantum physics - don't worry, it will be easy. In the 17th century, when scientists became aware of atoms, they believed that atoms looked like billiard balls. They also believed that different combinations of atoms formed different substances, and therefore that atoms are the particles that form the universe. All we needed to do was identify all the different types of...

Exemptions add a little gravy to the meat and potatoes of adjustments and itemized deductions. How would you like to claim that loveable (but deadbeat) relative who lives with you, and just can't seem to hold a job? What about that elderly relative that lives in the retirement home, but you provide most of their support? Would you like to claim them? Keep heart, trooper, there is a good possibility you can! In Part 1 of this series we looked at adjustments - the special case deductions allowed by "Uncle" -and how they rescue you tax dollars. In part 2 we looked at itemized deductions - write-offs like mortgage interest and charitable contributions. In this article, we're looking at exemptions, and...

It is now possible to find all sorts of court records online.  Many municipalities now place their records on the Internet for ease and convenience.  To find your records efficiently you need to know where to look and how to pursue your search.  Sometimes it is possible to find things easily, but some localities seem to go out of their way to make things difficult.  Additionally, some states allow certain documents to be placed online, while others restrict public access to those who are willing to come to a courthouse. When acting as your own investigator it can take a while to find documents online.  While all documents of public record must be made available, not every court provides online...