When Waiting Becomes a Distant Memory

This week, two of my friends received their long-God.
awaited phone call telling them they had precious,When times were the hardest - both of them, in
little daughters waiting for them in China.their own unique way would turn their attention to
These two women, whom I've never met in personothers! I can recall many nights on our weekly phone
but who have become friends and prayer partners incall when they'd be asking about me and my
a weekly telephone group, are an inspiration to me.daughter, praying for our needs. They faithfully
When they started their adoption process, the waitencouraged several of us from the group over a
for their referral was to be about 7 to 8 months.year ago when we were preparing for our travel to
That continued to be stretched out longer andChina - and since our return, they have been solid
longer, until at last - 17 months later, they got the callrocks of support as we new moms began to
on Monday, March 5th, 2007.navigate our way through first- time motherhood.
They got their call from the adoption agency, andI thought my 8 months of waiting was an eternity.
even in the midst of a tornado of emails and phonePeople would tell me how patient and relaxed I was!
calls to and from family and friends, they wereWhat would I have become if that 8 months had
faithful as always to phone in to our little group thatbeen more than doubled? I tell you - their wait has
same evening to share in their excitement and tobeen the equivalent of 3 back-to-back biological
praise God for His work and faithfulness to them.pregnancies!! These women, and many of you out
These incredible women have been amazingthere still waiting, deserve some kind of reward!
examples to me of real, practical patience. They haveWell, in just about 7 weeks, my two friends will get
trusted, day after day after day, in their great bigtheir reward when their gorgeous little children are
loving God. They haven't been phony, fake "put on aplaced in their arms for the first time. In that swirl of
happy face" patient. They've let us see theiremotion, thankfulness to God, and overwhelming
frustration and their pain, but through their prayers,delight - that 17 months of waiting will all become a
sharing, and encouraging others - their wondering andblur. They have allowed God to forge in them a faith
doubt always turned into an even more solid trust inthat will be a lifelong example to their children.