What You Don't Know about Domestic Infant Adoption

Domestic infant adoption is easier in the U.S. than thevary, adoptive parents may have a shorter or longer
many myths that surround it speculate. More openperiod depending on their situation. Most birth parents
adoptions these days have helped birth parents toare unmarried teenagers or single mothers or married
choose adoption over other alternative choices.couples who can't afford to raise a child (or are
Domestic infant adoption involves adoption of babiesalready raising a child). Adoptive single parents or
and children under the age of 2. Often, thesecouples younger than 25 or older than 45 years old
adoptions take place immediately following the birthmay have to wait longer to be selected.
of the baby. After the paperwork is signed, adoptiveDomestic adoptions take place under the adoption
parents can bring their new child home andagency selected and the state the birth parents and
immediately begin to build loving bonds andthe adoptive parents live in. Each state regulates the
attachments.adoption laws, which can cause some differing of
Depending on the agency and the participants,laws. Some states allow prospective adoptive
domestic infant adoption usually occurs within theparents to pay for the birth mother's living and
first year or two of filling out paperwork. Adoptivemedical expenses. Luckily, the U.S. only lightly
parents that are open to race and ethnicities otherregulates adoption and only six states require
than Caucasian usually adopt more quickly.adoptions to be performed through a licensed
Adoptive parents are chosen by the birth parents ofagency.
the child they adopt. About half of all adoptions areDespite the myths, this type of adoption is less
open these days, and the adoptive parents andexpensive than many people may have heard.
pregnant birth parents meet. Although there isAdoption can range from $4,000 to $15,000
controversy over getting too attached to a birthdepending on the agency used. Most of the fees
mother and her child before she has completelyinvolved in adoption pay for such services as social
relinquished her parental rights, many adoptivework counseling, home study, and legal
parents and birth parents spend time togetherconsultation-not for "buying" a baby, which is illegal in
before the birth of the baby. Since the characteristicsall countries.
that birth parents are looking for in adoptive parents