US Parents Outraged at Russian Adoption Scandal

Moms and dads across the country are now looking"homestudy" process and were approved as
for ways to tell the world that they are thrilled withadoptive parents, we were immediately e-mailed
the children they adopted from the former Sovietphotos of the two little baby boys that are now our
Union. They're banding together to ask Russia tosons. The process was quick and scary... we signed
stop punishing the thousands of childless couples incontracts, mailed checks and, after extensive
line, just waiting to bring their new son or daughterpaperwork, were off on our first trip to Siberia,
home, and lift the ban on U.S.- Russian adoptions.Russia.
Adoptive parents are coming together from all partsAlthough the trip was an emotional roller coaster, we
of the U.S. to tell their stories to anyone who willmet and welcomed these two emaciated and
listen. Radio and television media, social networkingfrightened babies as our sons. We wanted to take
websites, and print mediums are all abuzz with thethem home with us immediately, so knowing we had
Russian adoption success stories of ordinary peopleto leave them in that sad, desolate place and return
who did not once think of packing their bundles ofto the U.S. to complete more paperwork was the
joy onto an international flight with a note pinned toworst feeling in the world. Fortunately, within two
their jackets saying effectively, "return to sender."months, we were back on our second trip to Russia
My husband and I are one such couple - happy,and we met with the judge who awarded us
ecstatic and thrilled with the children of our Russiancustody of our children. Two more weeks in Moscow
adoption - and we want to help others achieve suchto finish more paperwork was exhausting and
an uplifting, life-changing experience. Considering thestressful, but most of all it was a bonding experience
recent controversy regarding Russian adoption we,because our two beautiful baby boys were with us all
like so many other couples, are offering our journeythe time. Finally, touching ground at JFK airport in
as an example of success and hope.NYC was the happiest moment of our lives. Just
We are the proud parents of two of the mostknowing that our boys were not only officially ours
perfect boys adopted from Russia. Although ourbut also US citizens gave us immeasurable
Russian adoption success story started with tragedy,satisfaction.
it found its way toward a fairytale ending. AfterAfter an adjustment period, our boys Dylan and
losing twin boys from an in-vitro pregnancy at 19Hunter began thriving. These beautiful blonde-haired,
weeks, and then undergoing two more failed IVFblue-eyed boys are not only intelligent and athletic,
procedures after that, we needed time to recoverbut most of all happy. They are our pride and joy.
emotionally. It was during this time of healing that weWe are extremely fortunate to have been eligible for
decided that adoption was our calling as parents.a Russian adoption. We plan to give our sons the gift
We initially received conflicting information regardingof having every opportunity to grow into wonderful
various aspects of foreign adoption, including Russianyoung men. But the gift these boys have given us is
adoption. But we found that each agency has itsthe most priceless of all, the gift of being a family.
own guidelines and specifications. After muchWe urge you to come forward with your Russian
determined research (mostly on the internet) weadoption success story - tell it to the U.S. media and
fortunately found an excellent adoption agency 3000tell them to tell it to the Russian government. By
miles away from our home. The agency, based insharing our journeys, we can help others achieve
California, had Russian babies available for adoption.their dream of having a Russian adoption success
Since we had already completed our state-requiredstory to share for a lifetime.