Stepparent Visitation Rights in California

California has endeavored, by statute, to recognizeruling on a stepparent's request for stepparent
the right of stepparents to have visitation rights withvisitations, where the natural, birth parent and/or
their stepchildren. However, several recent Courtparents OBJECT to the request. Specifically:a) In the
decisions, have severely limited the scope ofcase of Toxel v. Granville (2000) 530 US 57, the
stepparent's rights, and, the jurisdiction and discretionUnited States Supreme Court, in striking down a
of trial courts in considering stepparent visitationWashington statute held:
requests.(1) That the Due Process Clause of the Constitution
A. Statutory Authority For Stepparent Visitationaccords parents a fundamental right to raise their
Rights in California:children, and, to make decisions concerning the care,
1. Family Code, Section 3101 provides that:a) A courtcustody, and control of their children;
may grant reasonable "visitation" to a stepparent, if(2) That absent a showing of unfitness of a child's
visitation by the stepparent is determined to be inparent, that there is a presumption that fit parents
the best interests of the minor child;b) That if aact in the best interest of their children, and, when a
domestic violence protective order was issuedparent's decision is judically challenged, the trial court
against a stepparent, the court SHALL considerMUST give the parent's decision "special weight"; and
whether that adversely affects the request;c)(3) That as long as a parent adequately cares for his
Stepparent visitation rights MAY NOT be orderedor her children, the Due Process Clause does not
that would conflict with a right of custody orpermit a state to infringe on the fundamental rights
visitation of a birth parent who is not a party.of parents to make child rearing decisions simply
2. Family Code, Section 3176(a) provides that if abecause a state judge believes a "better decision
stepparent's request for visitation with a stepchild iscould be made" than the decision of a fit parent;b) In
"contested" that the matter may be referred tothe recent California Court of Appeal case of In re
mediation; andthe Marriage of W (2003) 114 Cal App 4th 68, the
3. Family Code, Section 3185 provides that ifCourt:
mediation does not result in an agreement regarding(1) Cited with approval the Toxel v. Granville decision;
the stepparent's request for visitation with aand
stepchild, the mediator shall so inform the court, and,(2) Ruled that the trial court, who granted a
the court SHALL set the matter for a long causestepfather continued visitations with his stepson,
hearing on the unresolved issues.over the objection of the child's birth parents,
B. Appealate Court Decisions Limiting The Trial Court'sUNCONSTITUTIONALLY applied Family Code, Section
Jurisdiction And Discretion In Stepparent Visitation3101 in that case, since the record did not disclose
Requests:that the trial court gave "special weight" to the
1. The key element to remember is that California'sparent's objections, and, there was no showing that
statute ONLY addresses a stepparent's right tothe objecting parents were unfit parents.It bears
reasonable "visitation" with a stepchild.notation that in the Marriage of W case:
2. The California stepparent visitation statute DOES(a) the stepparent had been with the child's birth
NOT confer "jurisdiction" to a trial court to award amother since the stepchild was very young;
stepparent "custody" rights to a stepchild in an action(b) the stepparent had, post-divorce to the birth
brought under the California Family Law Act. Thismother, been exercising regular visitations with the
point was made clear in the case of In re thestepchild, who referred to him as "Dad";
Marriage of Lewis & Goetz(1988) 203 Cal App 3d(c) the trial court had referred the case to a Child
514.Custody Evaluator who reported that it was in the
3. Also, both the U S Supreme Court, and, thestepchild's "best interests and welfare" to continue to
California Court of Appeal, in recent decisions, havehave visitations with the stepparent.
severely limited the "discretion" of a trial court in