| When your son is about to graduate from high | | | | college. Other kids would indulge themselves in bad |
| school, it is automatically the thought of parents to | | | | company and would eventually be totally taken in by |
| decide where their son is good at and make their | | | | them without the knowledge of their parents. All |
| own decision as to what college degree their son | | | | these things happen just because the kid wants |
| would take. This is actually a good thing if your son | | | | something else which he knows he would excel in. |
| has the same inclination towards your belief with | | | | These are clear manifestations that kids do while still |
| regards to his college degree but can become a very | | | | in college if ever that they are forced to take a |
| bad scenario in case your son has a different choice. | | | | degree they do not want in the first place. |
| The outcome of having such diverse beliefs is not | | | | Kids who abide by their parents, and who are very |
| always the same, but parents must constantly ask | | | | obedient tend to follow their parents like robots, and |
| themselves whether they should be the one to | | | | are too scared to do extraordinary things in school. |
| decide for their son's college degree or not. | | | | So they continue to study and follow their parents' |
| One cannot blame a parent if they would have these | | | | wishes. However, after graduating and earning that |
| huge dreams for their son. Most parents would like | | | | particular degree, they do not feel satisfaction, or |
| their sons to become doctors, lawyers, engineers, | | | | even pride at having obtained a degree. In the end, |
| businessmen, or a statesman. However, there are | | | | they become dissatisfied and have no self-confidence |
| cases, if not often, that their son would have a | | | | at that. Success is not easily obtained and seems to |
| different line of thinking and would love to take | | | | elude them even though they try really hard to |
| another direction from what his parents want him to | | | | achieve it. This is just one of the long term effects |
| have. Some do rebel against their parents while there | | | | of not giving your son the opportunity to choose his |
| are those who also abide with their parents' wishes. | | | | own path. |
| There are cases wherein good kids and equally good | | | | Kids have their own minds and when they reach high |
| students at that intentionally fail their courses when | | | | school, they now formulate their own thoughts and |
| forced to take a degree which they did not like in | | | | aspirations. It may be nice to choose the degree for |
| the first place. They would often absent themselves | | | | your son but it may not work most of the time. |
| from classes, or simply show some bad behavior in | | | | |