Searching for Sea Shells and Memories

Do you remember that feeling of excitement andme. Life is full of imperfections and diversity but true
wonder as a child when embarking on a newbeauty comes from within. Of course, the real
adventure? For me, this often meant outdoorbeauty is the happiness, fulfillment, and memories my
activities like fishing, or when I was near one, a tripdaughter has captured from the expedition. Each
to the beach. The beach was the ultimate land oftime she would proudly show me her newly
opportunity presenting new sea shell treasures withdiscovered sea shell it would bring a smile to my
each incoming wave. Back then, life was simple, weface, reminiscing about the feelings only childhood
looked at the world with innocent eyes, free frominnocence can bring.
the complexities and misguided interpretations oftenOf course, collecting sea shells on the beach is not
associated with experience and maturity. Well, just asthe only way to create lasting memories for a child.
you had that feeling when you were young, yourEach day is a new opportunity to embellish your
child still has yet to "outgrow" that wondrous feeling.child's life through adventure and excitement. For me,
Why not allow your child every opportunity to buildthis fact can easily get lost in the flurry of everyday
lasting memories during his/her precious youth?life; and tapping into the adventure of seemingly
My daughter loves going to the beach looking for seamundane or boring activities is difficult. However, life
shells. She carries her little bucket gathering "prettyis like a giant balance beam: If I take too much time
shells" always making sure to stay a couple stepsfor myself, I will have to give back somewhere else.
ahead of me, ensuring her first opportunity at all theOn the contrary, if I give freely, I will experience the
washed up treasures. To her, it doesn't matter if therewards in other areas. I've found that life has a way
shells are broken as long as they appeal to herof balancing itself out.
personal intrinsic value. What a valuable reminder to