Q & A With Terri Lailvaux, Author of The Greatest Gift

Cape Town based Terri Lailvaux had an importantthe market for children's books is very complicated
message to get out, so when she realised traditionaland at that time, they didn't think they would work
publishing methods take too long, she decided to getwith my story.
a loan and self-publish her children's book, THEWhy did you choose to self-publish?
GREATEST GIFT.Out of pure desperation. I have quite a large circle of
THE GREATEST GIFT is a story about a Mother andfriends with adopted kids and they all needed a book
Dad bear who want a baby but can't have one and alike this.
Lioness who is alone and carrying a baby that sheI work full time and study part time and I just didn't
can not care for.They all end up at wise Mrs Cow'shave much time to keep on phoning and writing only
house to seek advice. Mrs Cow suggests the Bearsto be told "no" every time. So I took a loan and just
adopt and raise the Lioness's baby for her.got on with it.
Terri is a wife, mother, tourism lecturer at a privatePlease talk a bit about the process of lining up a big
tertiary education institution and a part-time studentdistributor, attracting media coverage for your book,
doing a National Diploma in Tourism. Contact her atand getting copies into book stores when you
mwterril at mweb dot co dot zaself-publish. Did you attempt these activities and to
When did you know you wanted to become awhat success?
writer?Once the books were printed, I emailed all my friends
I didn't really ever know that. I went to look for aand family with the details and they in turn
book that would explain to small children why andforwarded the email to their contacts. Out of that, I
how adoption takes place and I couldn't find one. Isold a hundred books immediately.
searched websites and eventually decided to try andSome of my friends bought my book for their school
write a few words down and see if I could createlibrary and the adoption agency that we used has
my own story.also taken a few copies on consignment to see if
What did you do about it?they can sell them. That's as far as I've got.
I started writing the story for my own son and hisI have no idea what to do to get the books
friends. I thought about the things they like and thedistributed and partly because I feel quite
things that excite them and came up with the animalbrow-beaten after struggling for two years to get it
theme. I wrote the true story of our adoptionall done on my own.
process but I changed all the humans into animals soI have no contacts in the media world and I haven't
make it appealing to kids.yet come up with any great plan. I would LOVE to
What inspired you to write this book? What is theget the printing and distribution of the book taken
message that you most want to communicateover by someone as I feel it is so important for
through the book?people out there to have access to it. Adoption
I decided to write this book after my husband and Iaffects a much bigger piece of the population than
adopted our son, Alex. It's a story that we can readmost people imagine.
to him and that our friends with biological children canHave you established contact with some of the child
read to them. My hope is that Alex and his friendswelfare networks and advocacy organisations that
will understand how and why adoption takes placesupport/facilitate child adoption in this country? What
and see the process as an incredible act of love fromwas the result of your interaction? Do you speak at
both sides.parenting groups?
Adopting a child is a very special process and ISo far, I have only sent the book to Procare in
wanted to make sure that as my son grows up, heWellington (South Africa) as they are the agency
sees it as something positive and also that he canthat we used.
explain to other kids why and how he was adopted. II plan to make contact with schools, other adoption
also want his friends to know about it andagencies, parenting groups and clinics. I haven't yet
understand it from when they are very young.due to time constraints. Procare were very positive
What were the credentials that most qualified you toabout selling it for me.
write the book?What are some of the marketing activities that you
Purely experience. I have no other writing credentials.are doing to make people, especially parents, aware
What were the two most important problems youthat the book/resource is available?
encountered during the writing process? How did youAt the moment, I rely on word-of-mouth marketing
deal with them?and have two posters up at local swimming schools.
I worried that the story was too simple but I lookedI have also sent quite a few books overseas to
at so many children's books and they are, for thefriends in the hope that the more widely the books
most part, really simple. The biggest hurdle by farare spread the more chance there is that someone
was illustrating the book.will want to publish or distribute for me. There are
I can't even draw a stick man so I needed help andbooks with friends in UK, USA, Dubai, Hong Kong and
on a zero budget, no one leapt forward to do theCanada.
job! Eventually after trying for over a year, myIf you had to do this book again, would you
neighbour who is a designer suggested manipulatingself-publish again? What were the rewards?
digital photos and doing it that way.I wouldn't self-publish by choice because of the
Did you initially submit the manuscript to traditionalexpenses involved. But if it was the only way to get
publishers? What was their response?the book out there, then definitely, yes, I would.
Yes...well, I tried. Most wouldn't even read theThe reward is seeing the vision I had, being
manuscript. They just said that their budget for thetransformed into reality. I'm also rewarded by seeing
year was used up and they couldn't help me.the incredibly positive reaction of my son and his
I did get one publisher to read my work. Threefriends and their parents to the book.
months later, I got a very short letter to say that