International Adoption Agencies – Dealing when Dreams of Adoption are Fading

It had been three long years for both Karen andthey would adopt, they assumed that their
David Richards. They had been waiting to bring homeapplications had met the conditions.
a young Romanian girl to adopt. They had kept aThe agency based in Windham provides humanitarian
photograph of Larissa on the side of their refrigeratoraid in Romania and helped the New Hampshire families
only to be told at the last minute by theirfind children to adopt. The Director said that people
International Adoption Agency that she had beenfamiliar with Romanian politics did not take the ban
adopted and placed with a Romanian Familytoo seriously at the time.
The Richards's are one of three families in New"If the moratorium is absolutely in effect, then
Hampshire and more than 100 in the United StatesRomanian officials would not be assigning children, but
that have been stuck in the middle of a complexthey did," they said. "In many years Romania had
political situation involving Romania, the Europeanrules, laws and regulations, but the sad thing is that in
Union and the United States.a country that's recovering from Communism,
During the course of the families' wait, Romania haseveryone put their own interpretation into what was
continually tightened its policies on internationallaw."
adoptions in an effort to get into the European Union.Once families had seen a face and heard a name, it
It now looks as if more families may end up withbecame harder for them to consider that the
news like the Richards’sadoptions might not go through.
"Sometimes even with the help of the rightIn January 2003, Romania enacted a permanent ban
International Adoption Agency, Overseas Adoptionson international adoptions, after the EU indicated that
don't always end as well as some people hope"such a law would be a requirement for the country's
For another family, the Cohn’s of Milford, theascension.
situation was just as bad. "For the first year and aThe Romanian Prime Minister said that all of the
half, we were very anxious," said Julie Ann Cohn,pipeline cases would be placed with Romanian families,
who filled out her application in 2002 and wasaccording to the U.S. State Department and
matched with a Romanian girl named Katherina inRomanian press accounts. But last week, the
early 2003. "And now for us, it's more like it's sad. IEuropean Union passed a resolution with an
feel like we've been in limbo for more than threeamendment recommending that the country place
years just hoping and praying, but we just don'tthe pipeline cases with foreign adoptive families.
really know what's going to happen. We're waiting forThe outcome isn't clear. Edgar Vasquez, a spokesman
a positive outcome."for the U.S. State Department, said it's difficult to
The situation in Romania was exacerbated by the fallpredict what will happen to the adoptive families.
of Romania's Communist government in 1989,"Of course we hope," he said. "We're deeply
international attention was focused on the country'sconcerned."
thousands of orphans, many of whom lived inJulie Ann Cohn said that the recent news from
understaffed, state-run orphanages. Romania beganRomania may mean the end of her wait.
offering abandoned children for international adoption"Once we know for sure that it's a no, absolutely set
in 1990, and many U.S. parents adopted them. Butin stone, then we'll likely proceed to a different
reports of corruption over the years led to a seriescountry," she said. "When I think my heart is ready
of temporary bans. Such a moratorium was in placefor it."
when a family such as the Richards’s applied toKathleen Richard said that she was relieved to hear
adopt.that Larissa had found a loving family, even if it
The International Adoption Agency that took thewasn't her own.
families' money and submitted their applications knew"I'm thankful that she finally has a family, because if
that there was a chance the applications wouldn't goshe can't be with us, I wanted her to have a family,"
through. But when all of the families received caseshe said. "That's what I was praying for. For me, it
numbers, names and photographs of the childrenwas just like a Christmas gift for her.