Getting Out the Door on Time

Around our house, it's the morning rush that causesdidn't know I was supposed to...!"
the most stress. I don't think I yell as much in a- Get a jumpstart. Do as much the night before as
whole month as I do the first Monday after a longyou can - pack lunches, sign permission slips, locate
weekend! For whatever reason, the kids are slowsports shoes. I'm guilty of skipping this step, and it
pokes, they squibble and squabble, and they doalways comes back to bite me in the caboose.
everything possible to get on my last nerve. Through- Delegate. Make one kid in charge of the car keys,
a lot of trial and error, I've found these strategies foranother in charge of lunches, and another (if you
getting us out the door on time:have one around!) in charge of turning all the lights
- Have a plan. Know what time milestones you needoff on the way out the door. There's no reason you
to meet - breakfast over and done by 8:05, shoesshould have to keep track of everything.
on and out the door by 8:15.- Figure out your "cheats." Determine what helps you
- Make a list. Let the kids know what is expected ofkeep on track - sticky notes on the front door,
them - and have it in writing. Let them know thatputting sports bags and instruments in the car the
they need to pack their backpacks, clear theirnight before, setting the clock ahead five or ten
breakfast plates, walk the dog, and brush their teeth.minutes. Don't be afraid to take those shortcuts!
When they see it all written out, it's easier for them- Aim for five minutes early. Whatever your target
to learn to plan ahead and think about what theytime is to be out the door, aim for five minutes
need to complete. Plus, there's no argument or "Iearlier.