An Open Adoption

I often turn to my Bible for comfort and hope. Onemother, in the Bible? And if the Pharaoh's daughter
reading, which always piques my interest, tells ofhad not rescued Moses, who else could have? Would
Moses' mother hiding him for a few months, andhe not have been murdered anyway, had anyone
then, placing him in a basket of bulrushes, and settingelse found him? If this is so, did Moses' mother know
him afloat on the river. She knew, if she kept herthat the Pharaoh's daughter would be visiting the
baby boy, he would surely be murdered. Herarea where she placed Moses? Was this young
surrendering of her baby was his only hope for life.woman, in particular, the only hope for Moses and his
As I reread this passage last night, I wondered, howbirth mother?
different my life might have been, if my child'sOne final pondering of mine: While this appears to be
adoption had been an open adoption. Moses' adoptionan open adoption from the birth mother's side, what
was really an open one, because of his sister'sabout the adoptive mother, the Pharaoh's daughter?
involvement. Indeed, his mother was his wet nurse!Could she have been so naive that she never figured
Did this knowledge and contact make it easier for histhis one out? And Moses? When did he become
birth mother?aware of who his birth mother was? What was his
Wondering this, I remembered that when my childrelationship with each of his mothers? Just how truly
was born I never saw her sweet little face. Why?open was this adoption?
Because I worried that, if I saw her, I would neverWell, perhaps my own firstborn child's history is
be able to let her go. Still, all the worry over her wellenough of a mystery for me. Perhaps I should
being through the years........What a relief it would havecontent myself with learning all I can about her past
been to know that she was well, happy and loved......circumstances? I don't know, it is somehow
Another thing I have been wondering: is Moses thecomforting to find our selves and our humanness
first mention, of a child being surrendered by his birthrecorded in the Bible...