Adopting? How to Prepare For Your Home Study

Next to bringing home your new child, the homeyour monthly debts. Families that have a large
study should be the most exciting part of theamount of debt may be encouraged to work
adoption process. While it can be time consuming andtowards reducing their debt in order to adopt. (This
a lengthy process, it is the stepping stone of havingclinician has never denied a family due to debt, or
you recommended for the match and/or placementknown of families being denied due to large amounts
of a child. Different states have varyingof debt). It is not a freeze frame snapshot of your
requirements, but all home studies are similar incurrent situation of any area that is being reviewed;
nature. It is a representation of you and your familybut rather a panoramic examination of many areas.
life to assess your suitability of providing a stableTax returns for the previous 3-5 years are provided
environment to a child. There is no need to fear thisto the home study provider, as well, to demonstrate
process. Armed with accurate information,a pattern of income.
prospective parents can face the home studyIt's important to already have an idea of the age
experience with the confidence and excitement thatchild you are interested in adopting. Babies or young
should accompany the prospect of welcoming a childchildren will have different needs than an older child.
into their family.You may have to consider having additional locks on
In most states, a home study can only be completedyour exterior doors, especially if you have a pool or
by a licensed adoption agency. It is very important tolake outside the back door. Steps may need a safety
make sure that while the social worker completinggate to prevent falls and to keep young toddlers out
the study may be licensed, if he/she is not workingof dangerous areas. Outlets will need to be covered
directly with a licensed agency, your home studywith protectors. It's also good practice to have
may have to be redone, starting the process over atsmoke detectors in each bedroom and in the main
step 1. If given an option, you should carefully selectareas of y our home. A fire extinguisher is essential,
the social worker. If your placing agency requires thatkept in the kitchen or garage. Guns have to be
they complete the home study, you are limited tolocked away, and the ammunition kept in a separate
their availability of social workers. If you are taskedlocation, also locked.
with locating an independent home study providerIt is not necessary to have all of these things in
yourself, there is more flexibility in whom you chooseplace, especially if you are months away from being
and you can shop around for one, just like you wouldmatched or placed with a child. It is necessary to
a real estate agency, a bank, a car, hair dresser, etc.have a good understanding of the development of
There are many things to consider when choosing athe child you are interested in, in order to know what
home study provider. It's important to feelsafety devices are crucial for you to have in place.
comfortable with your decision and the best way toIn 2006, The Adam Walsh Child Protection and
do that is to do your homework. When choosing anSafety Act was passed in order to establish a
agency, one of the first things to consider is cost.national registry of substantiated cases of child abuse
Home studies can vary in price just like anything else.and neglect. In all states, there is a process
There are many factors that go into determiningestablished to have this registry consulted in order to
your home study cost, such as the time frame it isdetermine if you have been involved with that state's
needed, your location, and the agency you haveDepartment of Children and Family Services. The
chosen. Generally speaking, the cost can range fromregistry will have case-specific identifying information
$1000 on up. When time is an issue, ask if they canthat is limited to the name of the perpetrator and
provide an expedited home study, and know that itthe nature of the substantiated case(s) of child
will probably cost more.abuse and neglect.
Another important question to ask is how long it willIn addition, you will need to consider who you would
take to complete the study. Because part of thename as guardian of your minor child in the event of
home study involves background clearances, youyour death. You will need to provide the guardian's
have to take into account the amount of time it willname, contact information, and an explanation of
take for those government agencies to process yourwhy you chose that individual or couple. It is
request. You will probably need local, state, andrecommended that you go ahead and name these
federal entities to report on any criminal activity. Ifpeople in your will, if you have one. I was recently
you have lived in your current state less than sixasked by a birth mother if she would get the child
years, you may need multiple states to report backback if something were to happen to the adoptive
to the home study provider. The home study canparents. The answer is no. The adoptive parents will
take anywhere from 4 weeks to 6 months.make this decision.
Oftentimes, choosing a provider that is limited toMost states require criminal background clearances on
home studies can speed up the process. Since theirthree levels, local, state, and federal. Arrests may
focus is narrowed, they are often able to devoteshow up on one, two or all three of these clearances.
more time to completing your study.This doesn't mean that if you've ever been arrested,
Another important consideration is how many visitsyou can't be considered as a parent. The cause of
are included in the process? The number of visitsthe arrest is considered, as well as the length of time
required will vary by state and if you are adoptingsince the arrest. There is a considerable difference in
internationally, you will have to follow the countrywriting bad checks ten years ago and assaulting your
guidelines as well. If multiple visits are required, usuallysignificant other just last year. While some states
one is completed in the home, and the others can beoffer specific guidelines about what offenses will
done at the social worker's office or an agreed uponprevent you from adopting, a lot of states leave
location. It is important to know if the home studythat decision up to the individual social worker. It is
price includes mileage or travel time for the worker.best to mention any questionable arrests in advance
If not, you may be billed separately for that cost.and try to get a sense of how the social worker will
You may also be interviewed apart from yourrespond.
spouse, and if you already have children, they will beOther sections of the home study will include
interviewed as well.accessing the stability of the marriage, discipline plan,
Preparing for the home study visit(s): It can beand how to nurture and celebrate the child's culture if
absolutely overwhelming to think of a strangerdifferent from yours. Some agencies and/or countries
coming into your home to "analyze" you andrequire adoptive parents to take continuing education
determine your worthiness of having a child. After all,courses. If adopting from the foster care system,
people have babies all the time that are much lessyou may have to take a 20 hours class in advance
qualified to raise them. Early on, most families willof adopting. There are obviously many variables,
become consumed with cleaning their home from topdepending on the state you live in, the country in
to bottom. While there is nothing wrong with havingwhich you want to adopt, and whether you are
a super clean home, the social worker isn't coming inadopting from a private agency or foster care
with white gloves and looking under the beds forsystem.
dust bunnies.Though the home study may seem overwhelming, if
The home study is to assess you and your lifestyleyou can do your homework and be prepared, the
in the areas of stability and financial solidity to ensureprocess will go smoothly. The social worker or home
that a child placed in your home will be well cared for.study provider should be viewed as an ally. His/her
You don't have to be considerably wealthy in orderjob is to help prepare you for parenthood, which is
to adopt a child, but you do have to show a patternthe ultimate goal.
of being financially responsible with your income and