6 Considerations When Designing Your Adoption Lifebook

While you are waiting to adopt a child it seems thethe towering pile of laundry will give you interesting
day will never arrive when the phone will ring withjournaling topics. Down the road you will be so glad
news of "You're having a baby!" Starting youryou journaled about and photographed the
adoption scrapbook album while still in the waitinguneventful things as well as the vacations. Your child
phase can help can be a comfort. It will remind youwill have a terrific time reading about it too.
that the day really will arrive when you will be a[5] Be creative, but don't get obsessive about it.
parent. Plus, it's a great way to learn how to journalDon't go join "cropping parties" unless you want a
what is important to you. Once the child arrives, younew social group. Buy a nice paper cutter, stick with
may be more likely to take the time to journal aboutstraight edges on your photos (no circles will save
events and emotions.hours), matte photos using solid-color card stock and
[1] Don't get overwhelmed with the idea of anbuy the patterned paper in bulk (craft stores have
adoption album. One of the best places to begin is"slabs.").
with a long list of topics about your adoption[6] Write it down now. It's a good idea to get the
experience. These kinds of lists can be found on aadoption scrapbook album done sooner rather than
variety of web sites, including my own, which haslater so your toddler can look at it, at least start
over 150 topics.keeping notes as you go so you will have lots of
[2] Consider if you'd like to do an album on your own,journaling ideas to choose from. Purchase a small
purchase a pre-made adoption book from yournotepad to carry around in the diaper bag so you
favorite bookstore, or even hire a freelancehave it handy when you want to write down
scrapbooker. They will do a pre-designed book forsomething that happened or just record your
you. One of the best options is the Adoptionthoughts.
Scrapbook Album. It's twenty pages of transparencyMy son turns five-years-old in a couple of week. The
overlays, and you get to choose five that specificallyfirst year of his life I grew so weary of strangers
fits your child's experience. They make scrapbookingtelling me, "It goes so fast." But now I am one of
stylish and fast.those people smiling at little babies and gushing to
[3] Go buy your stickers and other embellishments.new moms, "Cherish this time. It goes too fast."
Though few mention adoption, you can find a lot ofAdoption is such an extraordinary experience. It is so
stickers that mention family, baby milestones, love,easy to think that you will remember every emotion
and life events. These can be helpful to fill in spacesyou ever have when you look into your sweet
and add some style.baby's eyes. But come on... our brains can only hold
[4] Get out your digital camera and snap photosso much. Our children do grow up so quickly, so
around the house that first year of your child's liferecord those cherished memories now before you
(and later too!) Photographs of that day-to-day stuffforget.
like spilled Cheerios all over the living room floor and